12 things to do when you encounter criticism

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Criticism is one of the things that are faced by everyone in different forms. There are always a cluster of people who don’t appreciate your work but get jealous of whatever you do. These people deny your work and try to lower your energy by giving negative comments.

But there are also those people available to you who criticize you for your betterment and improvement. They encourage you by positive criticism to work more in a better way. Because their criticism make us to realize our mistakes. We are not subject master in everything or perfect in specific thing. Their criticism realize us this thing that we are not perfect and can make errors.

Here are 12 things to do when you encounter criticism;

  1. Try to bear critics.
  2. Accept all critics, whether it is negative or positive.
  3. Think about all points.
  4. Understand the point of criticism.
  5. Admit honestly that what you are lacking and where you need a room for improvement.
  6. Avoid making critics as your personal issue. Don’t take criticism to your heart.
  7. Judge yourself in pool of critics.
  8. Realize yourself that you are doing something that is affecting someone to react.
  9. Follow valuable critic, don’t ignore it.
  10. Remember that you are surrounded by both enemies and friends, who are always there to criticize you.
  11. Say thank you to all those who criticize you.
  12. Move ahead and try to fix it.Don’t stop yourself after criticism.

Share with us what you do when you face criticism?

5 Important Things To Be Successful

5 Important Things To Be Successful

To get a success and to maintain it on a same level is not an easy task. It requires a strong devotion, plenty of hard work, valuable goals and crystal clear doubtless concepts and motives.

In order to get a success and to learn from a successful people you have to remove your doubts, and misunderstandings nourishing in your mind about success.  Being Successful is not about not doing any mistake, walking without any  thorns, owning a plenty of money, getting easily what you wish. But being successful is a measure of other things rather than these.

Here are 5 important things to be successful:

1. Learn from your mistakes

Can you tell about anyone who does not make any mistake ever? Off course No!  Because  no one in this world is free of  wrongs. You cannot make stop mistakes to happen. You have to come out from fear of  making mistakes. You just need to know a way to handle it and in which direction you take it. Whether you are learning from your mistakes? Or in guilt about what you have done?

To be successful it is not important that you done something wrong, but what really matter is that what will you do after making mistake? Are you learning from your mistakes and trying to avoid repeating same mistakes?.

2.  Do not hesitate in getting help

We are living in a society. Society is a name of mutual cooperation and connection. So how one can be a successful without anyone’s co operation?. Your success is a network, linkage and connection of others who also put effort in making you successful. They can be your parents, siblings, friends, relatives, teachers, co workers etc. Everyone have a some role in making you successful. You alone cannot get credit of your success.

For instance,  a huge famous restaurant owner  success is nothing without a co operation of chefs, waiters,food providers and other staff members plus his customers too are important to make him successful restaurant owner.

So whenever you need help take it from others in any way without hesitation because it is important to be successful. You alone cannot do everything by yourself.

3.  Utilize every second of available time

It is not necessary to work 16-18 hours daily in order to succeed. Some people are more successful by giving 4-6 hours performance. Because they are managing their time and utilizing every second of available time positively without wasting it in unfruitful activities. They are spending less time and putting their best effort in getting  quality work done honestly.

Manage your time in a best way and prioritize your tasks. Which task is more important do it first in a limited time. And enjoy rest of time or do any other activity in that time.

4. Quantity does not matters quality does

Is success a measure of quantity or quality? Is successful a man who owns a millions of dollars and other materialistic possessions?.

Answer is No! Because only wealth does not make you a successful. For a success you need other things too because it demands a lot to be successful. Many wealthy people are still unsuccessful. Study them, you will get a point.

Some people are successful in their field. Is wealth can get credit of him being successful? No! He is successful because he does not blindly run behind a wealth. He does not believe on overnight success. Whatever he do, he do it honestly, he enjoy it, he is loyal to his ambitions, he works hard, he utilizes his abilities and talents in a right way on a right time, he is organized, he manages his time fruitfully, most importantly he learns from his mistakes and avoid repetitions. He is doing something which make him enjoy his life and open the paths of success for others too.

All these things can give him success and wealth too, but not success for wealth or wealth for success. So whatever you do keep quality first and quantity least.

5. Difficulties comes in anyway

Hardships lies not only before and after success. They can come in anyway in anytime. Being successful does not mean that now you don’t face any difficulty. Getting success is not great but maintaining it and beating obstacles in its way is great.

Nothing is easy in our life and nothing is impossible too in this world, important thing is that how we are dealing with our life issues, how we are tackling with hardships, in which way we are removing thorns in our way of success.

So whatever success you have achieved maintain it, fight with the hurdles. Don’t be disappointed. Continue your efforts, enjoy your success and failures too. Accept the every phase of your life in which it appears, whether it is a difficult mode or easy one. And try to remove all misunderstandings about being successful in order to get actual success.

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Believe You can do everything and anything

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Yes you can do every thing.

Why?

Power of doing lies inside you. If you know your self, if you know your potentials.Then you are able to do everything and anything.

Nothing in this world is possible.We often hear that impossible says itself that i m possible.Once you decided to to something then stick with your decision and give your full effort to do that.

Believe that you will get what you want to get.Believe that you  can conquer big castles of the world.Believe that you can win every battle. You should need to believe on your self and your abilities.This believe and positive mental attitude make you achieve everything and make it possible for you to do anything and everything.

You just need to explore your talents. You just need  a courage to overcome all negativeness and hurdles that come in your way and tries to make you weak. You have to fight with your weaknesses.

Don’t believe that you can’t do this and that.You just need to believe that you can do everything.Realize yourself that i can do everything.

You are the one who create his destiny himself by your  decisions and actions.

Overcome your weaknesses, strengthen your believe, and take a stand to do anything.

Do you believe that you can do everything and anything?

 

17 sayings that help you in overcoming your fears

  1. “Do one thing every day that scares you.”― Eleanor Roosevelt
  2. “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”― Frank Herbert
  3. “Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.”― C. JoyBell C.
  4. “Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.”― Salvador Dalí
  5. “Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”― Jim Morrison
  6. “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.”― Paulo Coelho
  7. “Men go to far greater lengths to avoid what they fear than to obtain what they desire.”― Dan Brown
  8. “I have accepted fear as part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back….”― Erica Jong
  9. “Do not be afraid; our fate Cannot be taken from us; it is a gift.”― Dante Alighieri
  10. “I must say a word about fear. It is life’s only true opponent. Only fear can defeat life. It is a clever, treacherous adversary, how well I know. It has no decency, respects no law or convention, shows no mercy. It goes for your weakest spot, which it finds with unnerving ease. It begins in your mind, always … so you must fight hard to express it. You must fight hard to shine the light of words upon it. Because if you don’t, if your fear becomes a wordless darkness that you avoid, perhaps even manage to forget, you open yourself to further attacks of fear because you never truly fought the opponent who defeated you.”― Yann Martel
  11. “Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.”― Marie Curie
  12. “The moment we begin to fear the opinions of others and hesitate to tell the truth that is in us, and from motives of policy are silent when we should speak, the divine floods of light and life no longer flow into our souls.”― Elizabeth Cady Stanton
  13. “Without fear there cannot be courage.”― Christopher Paolini
  14. “Find out what you’re afraid of and go live there.”― Chuck Palahniuk
  15. “Always do what you’re afraid to do.”― E. Lockhart,
  16. “Here is the world. Beautiful and terrible things will happen. Don’t be afraid.”― Frederick Buechner
  17. “Fear’s useless. Either something bad happens or it doesn’t: If it doesn’t, you’ve wasted time being afraid, and if it does, you’ve wasted time that you could have spent sharpening your weapons.”

    ― Sarah Rees Brennan

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10 Best Habits

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A habit means to repeat same actions in same conditions.

Everyone have some good and few bad habits.

We can replace bad habits with the good ones.

Some habits are naturally in us while few habits we adopt from family, friends and from environment. And these habits have deepest impact on our life circumstances.

These habits represent our self to others. It depends on us that how we show our self to others.

Instinct and inborn habits are the ones which are natural and need based, for example eating, and drinking, sleeping etc. But what we are eating and drinking or when we are sleeping indicates our habits.

Here are the 10 best habits:

  1. Early to bed & early to rise
  2. Eating healthy diet
  3. Exercise
  4. Reading books
  5. Punctuality
  6. Admitting mistakes and forgiving others
  7. Proper planning and organizing
  8. Always be grateful
  9. Admiring nature
  10. Always thinking positively

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10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

Human brain is a treasure of ideas.In every moment new idea gives birth in our brain.But all of those ideas are not able to determine our success or to take an action on them. A lot of considerable ideas blossoms in our mind garden  but fades at the same time.

Everyone is in search of great ideas that can change their lives.So it is important to get reach at the level where your brain gives standard  ideas and then it depends on you that how you nurture and take action on those ideas.

There are 10 ways in which you can get more productive and beneficial ideas from your brain.

1. Clarity

First be clear about your problem and your ambitions.Remember that you cannot get the best possible solution to your problem without identifying the problem first.Without clarity you are like standing on the platform without knowing clear about the starting and point of your destination.If you are clear about your goals and your problems then you can easily reach at your destination of getting ideas that are relevant to your problems.

2. Practice

Practice the brain exercises which make you to get great ideas.Brainstorming is one of that practice which can give you influencing ideas.By brainstorming you can reach at the best possible solution to your problems.You can brainstorm by writing or by discussing the issue with others.

3. Concentrate

Pay concentration on your needs and demands.What you want should be clear first, in this way you can focus only on one thing properly and also you can work attentively on that. Similarly if you want to be a best writer then you should need to pay your full attention and concentration on writing.You will concentrate on the ideas more that will help you in writing.

4. Interest

Developing interest in whatever you are doing gives fruitful results.You should need to have interest in the way in the steps that help you in getting your goals.But if your work matches your interest it ensures your success. Because if you interested in getting something or reaching somewhere, you will work hard to achieve it.Your interest level also gives you relevant ideas.

5. Compare

Sometimes same solution to the same problems doesn’t works.But you can compare the past and present situation to get idea from your past experiences and to apply it in present situation in a different way, that works.

6. Accept

Accept every task as a challenge and then give your best effort to win that challenge. Don’t think your task as a problem but as a challenge.  In this way toughest of toughest task become easier to complete.

7. Explain

Explain your problems or challenges. If you are clear about them you can then easily explain and evaluate them. Explaining and evaluating surrounding solution to the problems is vital to  get out of the every situation.Explain yourself what you want to explore more ideas according to it.

8. Conscious

Sometimes we spend days and nights in thinking about getting out of the situation but  get nothing.But suddenly idea strikes in our mind and we become able to take an action on that.By keeping eyes on your goals every time and giving yourself positive affirmations makes you to get whatever you want.

9. Live

Try to live differently as compared to ordinary days.You will get the new experiences by doing so.It will broadens your vision and open the new avenues to get out more from your brain.

10. Work

Whenever any idea hit the ground of your mind, write it at the same time.For this keep pen and paper with you or write it in any digital format. When you write it then find the best way to implement that idea in a best manner to get maximum output.Finally start doing work on your idea, with your full potential  and effort. Rest will become the history.

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47 Positive Statements Repeat Yourself Everyday To Bring Positive Change in your life

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Affirmations are positive statements that you visualize and believe in and that helps you to overcome your negative thoughts.These statements boosts your energy to do every thing and make you more confident about yourself and your every action.

Repeating positive statements  everyday changes the way of your thinking and feeling.And you become able to defeat the negative beliefs about yourself.You start believing on yourself more and make smart choices that ensures your success.You become more capable to complete every task without worrying and hesitation.

Repeat these positive statements to yourself in every morning or on every night, when you need it.

  1. I myself a great blessing  in the world.
  2. I can do every thing.
  3. I have a courage to face every situation.
  4. I can take risks.
  5. I can turn my loss in to profit.
  6. I am born to win.
  7. I can turn my failure into victory.
  8. I trust on my abilities.
  9. I can make right and smart choices.
  10. I can change the world.
  11. I can get good grades in every exam of my life.
  12. I can prove myself.
  13. I am the CEO of my own life.
  14. I am more wealthy and healthy
  15. I am grateful for every thing.
  16. I am able  to change someone’s life.
  17. I can make more friends.
  18. I can control my anger.
  19. I can forgive others.
  20. I can admit my every mistake.
  21. I never give up.
  22. I find inner peace inside me.
  23. I think positively.
  24. I can overcome my negative thoughts.
  25. I can turn hatred into love.
  26. I can extract great pleasure from little things.
  27. I am happy with my life.
  28. I am confident about my every action.
  29. I can speak truth.
  30. I can speak in front of tons of people.
  31. I am unique with my  abilities.
  32. I can utilize my energy and time positively.
  33. I am comfortable with everyone.
  34. I follow my dreams.
  35. I accept myself whatever, who ever i am.
  36. I can bear criticism.
  37. I can achieve my every goal.
  38. I am excited about my every day.
  39. I am determined about my goals.
  40. I can give more.
  41. I enjoy my every moment.
  42. I can be a role model.
  43. I can break down every barrier and hurdle in my way.
  44. I am successful.
  45. I am the leader of my inner self.
  46. I never hate, i love everyone.
  47. Everything is possible for me.

 

What is in your list of affirmations?Or which positive statement you repeat yourself every day? Share with us.

7 Essential Steps for writing a book

7 Essential Steps for writing a book

1. What the book is about?

Do you know something very well about the topic you are been writing?. If yes then you know very well that what the book is about and who will get more from your book?.Making table of content first make easier for you to write on the topic.

2. Schedule for writing

Set a time for writing according to your ease. Or write when you are feeling yourself to giving more productive output.Usually this time can be a morning, when brain works more sharp and productive.

3. Writing Environment

Where you feel yourself more comfortable, start writing there.It can be your study room, living room, park,coffee house, etc.But avoid any distractions that disturb you while writing.That environment should be clean and have a proper light and a place where you can easily get fresh oxygen.

4. Decide chapters of  book

Before writing decide on rough estimate that how many chapters you have to write to give your message properly. Estimate that how many words you need to write for one chapter. for example; it can be 40,000-60,000 words, if you are writing standard nonfiction book or novella.

5. Get Motivation

In order to keep flowing ideas, read constantly. Read something that inspires you to write more. That motivate you to write your best and help you to overcome writer’s block.

6. Check for grammar and other common mistakes

After finishing writing book.Read all again and check for grammar mistakes and other things which you want to add or remove.

7. Share you writing for early feedback 

Before final publishing share your writing project with your friends, family or with other well-known authors. Who can give you early feedback on you book.Be sure to whom you are sharing your work can give you honest advice and feedback for your work.You can also start writing on a blog to get feedback.

3 ways to strengthen your motivation

3 ways to strengthen your motivation

Desires and ambitions fuel the motivation.If you lack both you lack motivation too.Your inner self drives you and motivates you to fulfill your desires and achieve your goals, if you have them.You will be persistent, energize and courageous, when you are motivated.

1. Visualization

Having a  clear vision and image of your goals in your mind, make you motivated to work on them.It will pushes your inner power and strength to move towards the direction which can turn your vision into a reality.Visualization strengthens your motivation and enhance your abilities to achieve whatever you want. Having a goal itself motivates you.

Visualization makes your subconscious mind to work with you.So visualize your desires as you have already achieved them, it will strengthen your motivation and add the feeling of happiness and joy.

2. Affirmation

Thinking positively help you to be stay motivated to get success, wherever you want it. Sticking  with a goal and never giving up in any hardship, burns the flame of motivation. Staying positive and  patience gives you positive results and motivates you to do whatever you want.

Avoiding negative statements and repeating positive statements, motivates you that you can do everything and achieve whatever you want.Having a firm believe on whatever you are saying to yourself brings positive results. Say yourself that you can do everything.

3. Inspiration

Getting inspiration from your surroundings, from reading, socializing make you to stay motivated.See for inspiration from your right and left.Read books that strengthens your motivations and develops your urge to achieve the goals faster.

Whenever you think you are procrastinated, try to connect with the people who inspires you, and motivates you.It will help you in overcoming procrastination.

How you strengthen your motivation? Share with us.

 

 

You have only one life

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All of us come to this earth soon will go back. In this world we are blessed with one life. What we do is all to do in only this one life. It will ends soon on its time. What we do in this life soon become our past. It is not important that life ends soon, important is that how you live it.

What we achieve and what we lose in this one life all depends  on our way of leading our lives. Our attitude and believe make us to hit the rock in our life or to crush and wound ourselves under the rock. To live and enjoy life to the fullest, we should need to make our attitude and believe positive towards life.

When we open our arms to receive our life all smiles, sadness wholeheartedly, then we can live our life to the fullest and enjoy every moment of it.To make our life story enjoyable we have to work on it, we have to believe on our self, we have to take risks, we have to make our self proud for our life.

Take a time from your busy schedule and think for a moment how you are spending your life?Are you wasting your life? Or spending it in hating, regretting, questioning, blaming or complaining?

If you are spending your life in this way then stop immediately, stop blaming and complaining, forgive others and forget all negatives, don’t regret and start smiling and act of gratitude and kindness even for a tiny things happening in your life.  

Life can be beautiful, if you make your eyes to see only beauty of life everywhere even in darkness you can find this beauty.

Life can be easy, if you yourself don’t make it complicated.

Be yourself, world is full of negativity and positivity , try to avoid negative ones. Then see the magic and miracles happening in your life!

 

 

47 quotes that inspire and motivate you to take an action

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There are millions of quotes we find everywhere quoted.But very few of them inspire us really and motivate us.Reading those quotes brings energy into us to act.

Here are 47 quotes that inspire and motivate you to take an action:

  1. You will get all that you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.  (Zig Ziglar)
  2. We do the best we can with what we have and when we know better, we do better. (Maya Angelou)
  3. Nothing ever gets easier. You just get stronger. (Unknown)
  4. You must be the change you wish to see in this world. (Gandhi)
  5. Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. (Pema Chödrön)
  6. You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. (Winston Churchill)
  7. It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. (Chinese Proverb)
  8. It matters not what someone is born but what they grow to be. (J.K. Rowling)
  9. The lust for comfort kills the passions of the soul. (Khalil Gibran)
  10. It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are. (E.E. Cummings)
  11. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.Even the smallest person can change the course of the future. (J.R.R. Tolkien)
  12. We cannot start over but we can begin now and make a new ending. (Zig Ziglar)
  13. Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grow flowers, not thunder. (Rumi)
  14. The entrance door to the sanctuary is inside you. (Rumi)
  15. When you’re happy, don’t promise. When you’re angry, don’t answer. When you’re upset, don’t decide. (Persian proverb)
  16. I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it. ( Picasso)
  17. The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places. (Ernest Hemingway)
  18. If we leave our smells behind when we leave a room, surely something of our soul must remain when we leave this life. (George R.R. Martin)
  19. Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and shadows will fall behind you. (Walt Whitman)
  20. In every end, there is also a beginning. (Libba Bray)
  21. Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. (George Addair)
  22. If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. (Jim Rohn)
  23. When one door closes, another opens but there’s often a long hallway in between. (Ric Jarow)
  24. Talent is God-given, be humble. Fame is man-given, be grateful. Conceit is self-given, be careful. (Oprah)
  25. Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher. (Oprah)
  26. Better that the whole world should turn against you… than you should consent to turn against what is true within you. (Guy Finley)
  27. If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. (Peace Pilgrim)
  28. Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work. (Stephen King)
  29. Be strong when you are weak, brave when you are scared and humble when you are victorious. (Unknown)
  30. It always seems impossible until it’s done. (Nelson Mandela)
  31. You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens. (Louise L. Hay)
  32. If I want to be accepted as I am, then I need to be willing to accept others as they are. (Louise L. Hay)
  33. The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen at once. (Albert Einstein)
  34. People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals – that is, goals that do not inspire them. (Tony Robbins)
  35. Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. (Benjamin Franklin)
  36. It is never too late to be what you might have been. (George Eliot)
  37. Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you. (George R.R. Martin)
  38. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. (Theodore Roosevelt)
  39. Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it… it’s just easier if you do. (Byron Katie)
  40. Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find. (Wayne W. Dyer)
  41. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. (Helen Keller)
  42. Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got. (Robert Brault)
  43. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking that you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason to not follow your heart. (Steve Jobs)
  44. Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. (George Bernard Shaw)
  45. Everything you can imagine is real. (Pablo Picasso)
  46. How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. (Anne Frank)
  47. The two most important days of your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. (Mark Twain)

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7 steps to complete big tasks

7 steps to complete big tasks

We get distracted and exhausted easily  while working on big tasks.If a project takes a lot of time to complete we get tired to work on that continuously.We become  energy less  while doing that and focus less on the work because it looks like a huge rock to hit that and seems more energy and time consuming.

It is always suggested that divide the big tasks into smaller ones to work on them easily and quickly.Breaking down tasks into parts can avoid distractions and your brain focus more on completing the task without getting exhausted and neglecting  other activities.

You can do it in these 7 steps:

  1. Think about the task and important parts of task.
  2. Divide the task into its component parts.
  3. Prioritize the component parts, which are most important one for the project.
  4. Evaluate effort require for completing each part of the task.
  5. Create a timeline to complete the each part.
  6. Start doing work on the component parts in order to complete the big project.
  7. Overview all of your work for the big project.

This Strategy is also applicable while working on your goals.

What is the strategy you adopt to complete your big tasks? Share with us.

The 3 types of terror defined by Stephen King

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Stephen King explain terror in three ways that are;

1. The Gross-out: the sight of a severed head tumbling down a flight of stairs, it’s when the lights go out and something green and slimy splatters against your arm.

2. The Horror: the unnatural, spiders the size of bears, the dead waking up and walking around, it’s when the lights go out and something with claws grabs you by the arm.

3. And the last and worse one: Terror, when you come home and notice everything you own had been taken away and replaced by an exact substitute. It’s when the lights go out and you feel something behind you, you hear it, you feel its breath against your ear, but when you turn around, there’s nothing there…
Which type of terror you have faced mostly? Share with us.

With every hardship there is an ease

 

With every hardship there is an ease

We see a lot of people in our surrounding unhappy. They are not happy with their job, partner, home, and with their life too. In their sadness they forget about other joys of life.

We forget that with every hardship there is an ease (AL QURAN).Only we have to find this ease from hardship in our life but we don’t do this generally and go into depression. There are so many pleasant things and moments to look for in our life but stripe of sadness is so strong on our eyes that we can’t see these joys.

When you feel sad than start just thinking for things that are joyous for you that can make you to forget about sadness. For example you are sad about your body, and then start thinking about other blessings given to you by ALLAH ALMIGHTY. Think you have eyes to see, ear to hear, hands to work, legs and feet to walk and say thanks to ALLAH ALMIGHTY for all this. When you are in gratitude moment sadness doesn’t tries to harm you. Just appreciate nature for all the blessings bestowed on you.

Remember there is a shining morning of every dark night. You just have to wait with patience for that morning it comes on its own time. And it doesn’t come earlier not later but only on its pre-written time. It doesn’t mean that you sit only and just wait. But along wait don’t stop doing efforts for bringing sunshine of your life.

Not every time there are good things been happening. But it doesn’t mean that good is not present in your life. It is present you just have to see good on other side of bad thing. Because coin is not same from both side. There is good for some reason, bad for another some reason. But what that reason is? Really look for that.

People are happy because they choose to be happy. They look positively even from negative. And learn lessons from negativities. Their expectations are always for good thing they don’t expect worst, whether it will happen or not. They are feeding their brain with all the positivity’s and yes success comes to those no doubt sooner or later, but it is sure.

Just remember;

“The present moment is filled with joy and happiness If you are attentive, you will see it.”   Thich Nhat Hahn

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Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Aiming big, high, more, less, little doesnot matter until you don’t know what you want to do with yourself?with your life?

It is like a journey on a road without knowing where your destiny lies?

We often listen that aiming big, achieving high.  Suppose you aimed high and achieved big. Is it all that you really want to get from your life? Is it satisfying for you? Or there is a hole inside you remaining unfulfilled despite of achieving your aim?

If yes. Then it happens because you are aiming and achieving what you don’t want from your heart to get.

Reality  is that what we want is what we aim. But not always.

Suppose you aim to achieve certain X degree in order to get X job. So you got a degree and after that you got a job too matching your degree. But  after a certain time you realize that you are not happy with your job, with your lifestyle. It is because you had previously an aim that doesnot matches what you really want.

Mainly because for setting an aim of your life you haven’t listened voice of your heart. You haven’t discover what you really want to get from your life. You are unhappy because whatever you have achieved is not what you want.

So before aiming and achieving high, you should have all to do is to be to get awareness about your wants,  discover them, learn about them, realize them and then finally take an action to move forward in land of aiming big and achieving high. Every step of which  you enjoy and whose results gives you more pleasure and satisfaction.

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17 Ways to Do what you love to do

17 Ways to Do what you love to do

Do what you love or love what you are doing is important for achieving success and satisfaction.

If you are a doctor or teacher  and you love your professional work to teach or to deal with patients, then you are at high rate of satisfaction and more productive towards your work.And on the other side if you are in a profession that don’t satisfies you  and not make you to enjoy your work, then you are living a boring and dull life.

People who are professionalists, but not happy with their work and every time complaining  and blaming about their profession, can not live happy. If you are lying under same category of people then you can follow some tips to do what you love to do

  1. You can become more active and productive if you do what you are passionate about doing.
  2. In order to know your passion & interests, take a round trip of your skills and capabilities by judging yourself.
  3. Remind yourself the activities of your childhood, which fascinates you and that you liked a lot to do and got good results. In this way you can know about your interests well.
  4. Make a list of all of your interests and hobbies and categorize them according to your potential.
  5. Brainstorm the ideas and ways  and make a plan what, how, and when you do.
  6. Try to be realistic in doing what you want to do.
  7. Get more knowledge, information or resources about your interest. Meet people who have similar interests like you.
  8. Overcome your all type of  fears.  Stop believing that adopting your interest or hobby  as a profession is risky and not a good deal. With this state of believe and fear you never be able to get state of happiness and success.
  9. Explore the opportunities for your interest and then finally go for it.For example if you love to travel around a world then you should need to explore opportunities for it and ways for travelling profitably i.e. enjoy travelling+earning money through it.
  10. Decide what are those things that you are most capable to do.
  11. Know your potential skills and find the ways through which you can polish them more.
  12. Set up your mind for loss and gain, both. And pre-evaluate solutions for the loss and the problems that you might face.
  13. Try to add sense of creativity, what you are being doing.
  14. Share with your friends, family or well wishers about your passions and get feedback, ideas  and advice from them. These people can guide and help you in doing what you love to do.
  15. Find a mentor and get some inspiration and motivation from them.
  16. Don’t wait for a specific moment. Make a  firm decision and act accordingly.
  17. Plant grows slowly, so try to be patient.

When you do what you love to d, then you feel yourself more energized because your potential to give productive output increases. So its better to spend your energy on tasks which you are passionate about to accomplish.

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Thank you O Allah

Thank you O Allah

Thank you OH  Allah, Oh ALLAH The Great

You have created us

You have given us a reason to live

You blessed us with eyes to see, ears to hear, tongue to taste, brain to think, legs to walk, hands to work…

What you have not given us? Nothing is left to ask you to give us, You know our desires our needs, You have given us so much of things and we know the lacking point in our life is also fulfilling by You.

You are the best Oh ALLAH, You are The GREAT.

Thank You Allah for everything

I am nothing but You have given me everything.

I have no  Standard words that fulfill Your level of praise Oh ALLAH,

I am saying YOU thanks for everything, for every blessing in every moment, for my every breath. Thank you ALLAH. Thank you a lot ALLAH.

ALLAH you are The Most Merciful and The Most Gracious, Please forgive us for our every mistake.

Please help us OH ALLAH in our every aspect of life, Oh ALLAH please please fulfill our all legal desires and needs. Help us and make us successful in this world and in the world after that. Amen

Say Amen!