5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

Doubt is your mental state which hangs you in between; what if/ whether. Sure/unsure. You are in belief/ disbelief, questioned state. You are in fear to choose. It is like a true and false. With your doubtful mind you cannot judge anything efficiently and effectively.  Doubt throws you in a basket of anxiety, make you embarrass and worthless and restricts your creativity, judging and decision power.

However being doubtless mean free of doubt. In state of certain surety. You have a believe that it can be true or is absolutely right. In certain case you are uncertain but very less that doesn’t matter a lot. To be doubtless is important in taking big steps. If you are free from any doubt then it means you are more confident about yourself.

Here are few ways to be doubtless.

1. Define your doubts to yourself;

When you are aware about your doubts. Then define them clearly to yourself with every minute detail. Make a sense what make you to be a doubtful in certain condition. For example you are into starting a business but you have so many doubts in starting, first you think you don’t have the guts to do this thing, you are uncertain about business idea, you are not hiring a certain person because you have a doubt on him too, etc. Now you have defined your doubts then work on them to get rid of them.

2. Believe on yourself;

For being doubtless, you should have to get a certain degree of believe on yourself. You know very well what can make you powerful (i.e. belief). When you are aware of yourself, you believe on yourself more. You know what make you strengthen and what make you weak. If you have too much doubt on yourself, you don’t bother to believe yourself; then no one can believe on you too. So believe first on yourself and then on whatever you do.

3. Take challenges and move ahead;

Everyday life itself is a challenging. But good thing is that how you make yourself compatible with these challenges without any doubt. You are in a state whether you can win or if you lose i.e. doubting yourself. So don’t concentrate on whether or if. Be a risk taker, take a challenge, tackle with a doubtful risk and move ahead.

4. Answer yourself;

Whatever you do in your life, wherever you are moving in your life you are answerable to yourself first. If you are moving on with some doubts then answer all the questions lying in your head first. Answer all the possibilities of that which questioned what if or whether. Now you have all the answers, choose from them which are doubtless and can make things possible for you.

5. Resist disruptions;

One of the reasons having so many doubts is distractions surrounding around you and inside you. These can be in form of anything or any person and inside your beliefs too. These distractions resist you to do big in life. So before they resist you, you have all to do is to resist these distractions first. Whatever you do you have to focus on the things with clarity of mind and heart without any ruin of doubts or uncertain beliefs. With clearly focused you nourish a plant of your success without any doubt and get the ripen fruit of your efforts. And all this can happen when you eliminate point of distractions.

Share, what makes you doubtless? 

LIFE in 101 lines of Truth

LIFE in 101 lines of Truth

  1. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.– Dennis P. Kimbro.
  2. Life doesn’t require that we be the best, only that we try our best. –H. Jackson Brown Jr.
  3. Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. ­­­_ Carol Burnett.

  4. I have found that if you love life, life will love you back.  _ Arthur Rubinstein
  5. You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.― Mae West
  6. Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans. ― Allen Saunders
  7. Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.― George Bernard Shaw

  8. Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.― Albert Einstein
  9. Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn’t stop for anybody. ― Stephen Chbosky,
  10. You cannot find peace by avoiding life. ― Michael Cunningham
  11. Where there is love there is life. ― Mahatma Gandhi
  12. Life is a book and there are a thousand pages I have not yet read.― Cassandra Clare
  13. Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. ― Søren Kierkegaard
  14. Life’s under no obligation to give us what we expect.― Margaret Mitchell
  15. Life is to be enjoyed, not endured ― Gordon B. Hinckley
  16. This is your life and its ending one moment at a time.― Chuck Palahniuk
  17. Life’s just a bunch of accidents, connected by one perfect end.― Daniel C. Tomas

  18. An apology is the superglue of life! It can repair just about anything!! ― Lynn Johnston
  19. That means life itself is a fairy tale. Like the characters, we all live and love and search for a happily-ever-after. ― Gena Showalter
  20. Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well.― Robert Louis Stevenson
  21. The trouble is if you don’t spend your life yourself, other people spend it for you.― Peter Shaffer
  22. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.― Helen Keller,
  23. It’s funny how you can live somewhere your whole life, but not really see it.― Kami Garcia
  24. It is not the length of life, but the depth.― Ralph Waldo Emerson

  25. Ordinary life is pretty complex stuff. ― Harvey Pekar
  26. Life is to be lived, not controlled; and humanity is won by continuing to play in face of certain defeat.― Ralph Ellison,
  27. Life becomes easier and more beautiful when we can see the good in other people.
    ― Roy T. Bennett
  28. And life is what we make it. Always has been, always will be.― Grandma Moses

  29. The secret of life is honesty and fair dealing. If you can fake that, you’ve got it made.― Groucho Marx
  30. Life moves very fast. It rushes from Heaven to Hell in a matter of seconds.― Paulo Coelho
  31. In life, more than in anything else, it isn’t easy to end up alive.― Roman Payne
  32. Life has become the future. Every moment of your life is lived for the future.― John Green
  33. Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it. ― Haruki Murakami,
  34. Unexpected intrusions of beauty. This is what life is.― Saul Bellow
  35. Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome.― Isaac Asimov
  36. That is life… to begin again when everything is lost!― J. Cronin
  37. The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams.― Oprah Winfrey
  38. Life is about accepting the challenges along the way, choosing to keep moving forward, and savoring the journey.― Roy T. Bennett
  39. Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another.― Ernest Hemingway
  40. Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced. – Soren Kierkegaard

  41. There are no classes in life for beginners: right away you are always asked to deal with what is most difficult.― Rainer Maria Rilke
  42. Life is dear to every living thing; the worm that crawls upon the ground will struggle for it.― Solomon Northup
  43. Life’s as kind as you let it be. ― Charles Bukowski,
  44. Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.― Helen Keller
  45. There is a very fine line between loving life and being greedy for it.― Maya Angelou
  46. Life is a comedy to those who think, a tragedy to those who feel.― Jean Racine
  47. There are always loose ends in real life.― Robert Galbraith
  48. Life is a dream from which we all must wake before we can dream again.― Robert Jordan
  49. Human life is but a series of footnotes to a vast obscure unfinished masterpiece.― Vladimir Nabokov
  50. Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…It’s about learning to dance in the rain.― Vivian Greene

  51. Our life is what our thoughts make it.― Marcus Aurelius
  52. This isn’t life in the fast lane, it’s life in the oncoming traffic.― Terry Pratchett
  53. Art and life are subjective. Not everybody’s gonna dig what I dig, but I reserve the right to dig it.― Whoopi Goldberg
  54. Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is a jar.― Jim Butcher
  55. Life is not fair get used to used to it.― Bill Gates
  56. A life isn’t measured in hours and minutes. It’s the quality, not the length.― Gabrielle Zevin
  57. Life, unfortunately, doesn’t seem to care what we want.― Richelle Mead
  58. The great object of life is sensation- to feel that we exist, even though in pain.― George Gordon Byron
  59. Life is a tapestry woven by the decisions we make.― Sherrilyn Kenyon
  60. In life, there are no mistakes, only lessons.― Vic Johnson

  61. Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, what experience tells you to do, and what your nerves let you do.― Walter Bagehot
  62. Life isn’t worth living, unless it is lived for someone else.― Albert Einstein
  63. If you think something is missing in your life, it is probably YOU.― Robert Holden
  64. The aim of life is self-development. To realize one’s nature perfectly – that is what each of us is here for.― Oscar Wilde
  65. You can’t regret the life you didn’t lead.― Junot Díaz
  66. The only certainty life contains is death.― Patricia Briggs
  67. Losing your life is not the worst thing that can happen. The worst thing is to lose your reason for living.― Jo Nesbø

  68. Life would be unbearably dull if we had answers to all our questions.― Jim Butcher

  69. Real life is messy, inconsistent, and it’s seldom when anything ever really gets resolved. It’s taken me a long time to realize that.― Alan Moore
  70. Life, although it may only be an accumulation of anguish, is dear to me, and I will defend it.― Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
  71. Life doesn’t require ideals. It requires standards of action.― Haruki Murakami,

  72. After all, what’s a life, anyway? We’re born, we live a little while, we die.― B. White
  73. Everything changes in my life, and the world stays the same.― Cassandra Clare
  74. Life is ours to be spent, not to be saved.― H. Lawrence
  75. Life is like a play: it’s not the length, but the excellence of the acting that matters. ― Seneca
  76. Life is a blank canvas, and you need to throw all the paint on it you can.― Danny Kaye
  77. Life is not like water. Things in life don’t necessarily flow over the shortest possible route.― Haruki Murakami
  78. Life is problems. Living is solving problems.― Raymond E. Feist

  79. The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.― Albert Einstein
  80. Life is not complex. We are complex. Life is simple, and the simple thing is the right thing.― Oscar Wilde

  81. Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it.― Irving Berlin

  82. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.― Parker J. Palmer
  83. You know, life fractures us all into little pieces. It harms us, but it’s how we glue those fractures back together that make us stronger.― Carrie Jones
  84. Life is so constructed, that the event does not, cannot, will not, match the expectation.― Charlotte Brontë
  85. While there’s life, there’s hope.― Marcus Tullius Cicero
  86. Life is like an onion; you peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.― Carl Sandburg
  87. Anything can happen in life, especially nothing.― Michel Houellebecq
  88. The irony of life is that those who wear masks often tell us more truths than those with open faces. ― Marie Lu
  89. I believe when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade…and try to find someone whose life has given them vodka, and have a party.― Ron White
  90. Life—the way it really is—is a battle not between good and bad, but between bad and worse.― Joseph Brodsky
  91. Life’ wrote a friend of mine, ‘is a public performance on the violin, in which you must learn the instrument as you go along.― M. Forster
  92. The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye, the story of love is hello and goodbye…until we meet again.― Jimi Hendrix
  93. If you have a strong purpose in life, you don’t have to be pushed. Your passion will drive you there.― Roy T. Bennett
  94. All people know the same truth. Our lives consist of how we choose to distort it.― Woody Allen
  95. Life isn’t fair, it’s just fairer than death, that’s all.― William Goldman
  96. Life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed. Explore more, expect least.― Santosh Kalwar
  97. Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. ― Anaïs Nin
  98. The power to change your life lies in the simplest of steps.― Steve Maraboli
  99. In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on. ― Robert Frost

  100. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.-Ralph Waldo Emerson
  101. The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it’s all that matters. ― Audrey Hepburn

You always have a Choice to Change or to Improve

With the Name of Allah Almighty who is most Gracious and Most Merciful.

You always have a Choice to Change or to Improve

A man sitting on his chair writing his resignation letter. He resigns because he is sick of his present job, he has poor performance, bad working relationships etc. So he look for another chance of job somewhere. A job that he think he can do better then present one.

Another man sitting on his chair writing  and brainstorming about things that make him to improve his present job. And get more from it. He is looking for skills and trying hard to acquire them so that he can improve his job performance.

These both have make different choices. One has decided to change and another one is going to improve.

In our life there are various moments come when we decide to change something for various reasons. On another hand we also stick on something to improve it.

-You go for change to get something better.

-You go for change because certain thing is not working in a way you are dealing with it.

-You go for change because you want it.

-You go for Improvement instead of changing because you think you can do it better with an extra effort.

-There is always a chance of improvement instead of leaving.

-There is always something to improve instead of going for change.

-Improvement itself is a way towards change with broader view.

-Improvement requires your determination.

-You always have to first go to choose to improve yourself, your life, people or system, if it doesn’t works then go for change finally.

-It  requires a lot of patience to get the outcomes of change or improve.

-When change becomes hard go for improvement.

-Sometimes you need change badly than to improve.

-Improving can makes you best of your version.

-However change and improve has its on benefits.

At all its your choice whether you have to change or to improve. Its depends on youre determination, your motivation, your efforts and hard work which you have to go for, You have to fulfill all.

Share with us, what you do? Will you go for change or to improve?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7 steps to complete big tasks

7 steps to complete big tasks

We get distracted and exhausted easily  while working on big tasks.If a project takes a lot of time to complete we get tired to work on that continuously.We become  energy less  while doing that and focus less on the work because it looks like a huge rock to hit that and seems more energy and time consuming.

It is always suggested that divide the big tasks into smaller ones to work on them easily and quickly.Breaking down tasks into parts can avoid distractions and your brain focus more on completing the task without getting exhausted and neglecting  other activities.

You can do it in these 7 steps:

  1. Think about the task and important parts of task.
  2. Divide the task into its component parts.
  3. Prioritize the component parts, which are most important one for the project.
  4. Evaluate effort require for completing each part of the task.
  5. Create a timeline to complete the each part.
  6. Start doing work on the component parts in order to complete the big project.
  7. Overview all of your work for the big project.

This Strategy is also applicable while working on your goals.

What is the strategy you adopt to complete your big tasks? Share with us.

With every hardship there is an ease

 

With every hardship there is an ease

We see a lot of people in our surrounding unhappy. They are not happy with their job, partner, home, and with their life too. In their sadness they forget about other joys of life.

We forget that with every hardship there is an ease (AL QURAN).Only we have to find this ease from hardship in our life but we don’t do this generally and go into depression. There are so many pleasant things and moments to look for in our life but stripe of sadness is so strong on our eyes that we can’t see these joys.

When you feel sad than start just thinking for things that are joyous for you that can make you to forget about sadness. For example you are sad about your body, and then start thinking about other blessings given to you by ALLAH ALMIGHTY. Think you have eyes to see, ear to hear, hands to work, legs and feet to walk and say thanks to ALLAH ALMIGHTY for all this. When you are in gratitude moment sadness doesn’t tries to harm you. Just appreciate nature for all the blessings bestowed on you.

Remember there is a shining morning of every dark night. You just have to wait with patience for that morning it comes on its own time. And it doesn’t come earlier not later but only on its pre-written time. It doesn’t mean that you sit only and just wait. But along wait don’t stop doing efforts for bringing sunshine of your life.

Not every time there are good things been happening. But it doesn’t mean that good is not present in your life. It is present you just have to see good on other side of bad thing. Because coin is not same from both side. There is good for some reason, bad for another some reason. But what that reason is? Really look for that.

People are happy because they choose to be happy. They look positively even from negative. And learn lessons from negativities. Their expectations are always for good thing they don’t expect worst, whether it will happen or not. They are feeding their brain with all the positivity’s and yes success comes to those no doubt sooner or later, but it is sure.

Just remember;

“The present moment is filled with joy and happiness If you are attentive, you will see it.”   Thich Nhat Hahn

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Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Aiming big, high, more, less, little doesnot matter until you don’t know what you want to do with yourself?with your life?

It is like a journey on a road without knowing where your destiny lies?

We often listen that aiming big, achieving high.  Suppose you aimed high and achieved big. Is it all that you really want to get from your life? Is it satisfying for you? Or there is a hole inside you remaining unfulfilled despite of achieving your aim?

If yes. Then it happens because you are aiming and achieving what you don’t want from your heart to get.

Reality  is that what we want is what we aim. But not always.

Suppose you aim to achieve certain X degree in order to get X job. So you got a degree and after that you got a job too matching your degree. But  after a certain time you realize that you are not happy with your job, with your lifestyle. It is because you had previously an aim that doesnot matches what you really want.

Mainly because for setting an aim of your life you haven’t listened voice of your heart. You haven’t discover what you really want to get from your life. You are unhappy because whatever you have achieved is not what you want.

So before aiming and achieving high, you should have all to do is to be to get awareness about your wants,  discover them, learn about them, realize them and then finally take an action to move forward in land of aiming big and achieving high. Every step of which  you enjoy and whose results gives you more pleasure and satisfaction.

Share, Is your aims matching with your wants?