5 Important Things To Be Successful

5 Important Things To Be Successful

To get a success and to maintain it on a same level is not an easy task. It requires a strong devotion, plenty of hard work, valuable goals and crystal clear doubtless concepts and motives.

In order to get a success and to learn from a successful people you have to remove your doubts, and misunderstandings nourishing in your mind about success.  Being Successful is not about not doing any mistake, walking without any  thorns, owning a plenty of money, getting easily what you wish. But being successful is a measure of other things rather than these.

Here are 5 important things to be successful:

1. Learn from your mistakes

Can you tell about anyone who does not make any mistake ever? Off course No!  Because  no one in this world is free of  wrongs. You cannot make stop mistakes to happen. You have to come out from fear of  making mistakes. You just need to know a way to handle it and in which direction you take it. Whether you are learning from your mistakes? Or in guilt about what you have done?

To be successful it is not important that you done something wrong, but what really matter is that what will you do after making mistake? Are you learning from your mistakes and trying to avoid repeating same mistakes?.

2.  Do not hesitate in getting help

We are living in a society. Society is a name of mutual cooperation and connection. So how one can be a successful without anyone’s co operation?. Your success is a network, linkage and connection of others who also put effort in making you successful. They can be your parents, siblings, friends, relatives, teachers, co workers etc. Everyone have a some role in making you successful. You alone cannot get credit of your success.

For instance,  a huge famous restaurant owner  success is nothing without a co operation of chefs, waiters,food providers and other staff members plus his customers too are important to make him successful restaurant owner.

So whenever you need help take it from others in any way without hesitation because it is important to be successful. You alone cannot do everything by yourself.

3.  Utilize every second of available time

It is not necessary to work 16-18 hours daily in order to succeed. Some people are more successful by giving 4-6 hours performance. Because they are managing their time and utilizing every second of available time positively without wasting it in unfruitful activities. They are spending less time and putting their best effort in getting  quality work done honestly.

Manage your time in a best way and prioritize your tasks. Which task is more important do it first in a limited time. And enjoy rest of time or do any other activity in that time.

4. Quantity does not matters quality does

Is success a measure of quantity or quality? Is successful a man who owns a millions of dollars and other materialistic possessions?.

Answer is No! Because only wealth does not make you a successful. For a success you need other things too because it demands a lot to be successful. Many wealthy people are still unsuccessful. Study them, you will get a point.

Some people are successful in their field. Is wealth can get credit of him being successful? No! He is successful because he does not blindly run behind a wealth. He does not believe on overnight success. Whatever he do, he do it honestly, he enjoy it, he is loyal to his ambitions, he works hard, he utilizes his abilities and talents in a right way on a right time, he is organized, he manages his time fruitfully, most importantly he learns from his mistakes and avoid repetitions. He is doing something which make him enjoy his life and open the paths of success for others too.

All these things can give him success and wealth too, but not success for wealth or wealth for success. So whatever you do keep quality first and quantity least.

5. Difficulties comes in anyway

Hardships lies not only before and after success. They can come in anyway in anytime. Being successful does not mean that now you don’t face any difficulty. Getting success is not great but maintaining it and beating obstacles in its way is great.

Nothing is easy in our life and nothing is impossible too in this world, important thing is that how we are dealing with our life issues, how we are tackling with hardships, in which way we are removing thorns in our way of success.

So whatever success you have achieved maintain it, fight with the hurdles. Don’t be disappointed. Continue your efforts, enjoy your success and failures too. Accept the every phase of your life in which it appears, whether it is a difficult mode or easy one. And try to remove all misunderstandings about being successful in order to get actual success.

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5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

Doubt is your mental state which hangs you in between; what if/ whether. Sure/unsure. You are in belief/ disbelief, questioned state. You are in fear to choose. It is like a true and false. With your doubtful mind you cannot judge anything efficiently and effectively.  Doubt throws you in a basket of anxiety, make you embarrass and worthless and restricts your creativity, judging and decision power.

However being doubtless mean free of doubt. In state of certain surety. You have a believe that it can be true or is absolutely right. In certain case you are uncertain but very less that doesn’t matter a lot. To be doubtless is important in taking big steps. If you are free from any doubt then it means you are more confident about yourself.

Here are few ways to be doubtless.

1. Define your doubts to yourself;

When you are aware about your doubts. Then define them clearly to yourself with every minute detail. Make a sense what make you to be a doubtful in certain condition. For example you are into starting a business but you have so many doubts in starting, first you think you don’t have the guts to do this thing, you are uncertain about business idea, you are not hiring a certain person because you have a doubt on him too, etc. Now you have defined your doubts then work on them to get rid of them.

2. Believe on yourself;

For being doubtless, you should have to get a certain degree of believe on yourself. You know very well what can make you powerful (i.e. belief). When you are aware of yourself, you believe on yourself more. You know what make you strengthen and what make you weak. If you have too much doubt on yourself, you don’t bother to believe yourself; then no one can believe on you too. So believe first on yourself and then on whatever you do.

3. Take challenges and move ahead;

Everyday life itself is a challenging. But good thing is that how you make yourself compatible with these challenges without any doubt. You are in a state whether you can win or if you lose i.e. doubting yourself. So don’t concentrate on whether or if. Be a risk taker, take a challenge, tackle with a doubtful risk and move ahead.

4. Answer yourself;

Whatever you do in your life, wherever you are moving in your life you are answerable to yourself first. If you are moving on with some doubts then answer all the questions lying in your head first. Answer all the possibilities of that which questioned what if or whether. Now you have all the answers, choose from them which are doubtless and can make things possible for you.

5. Resist disruptions;

One of the reasons having so many doubts is distractions surrounding around you and inside you. These can be in form of anything or any person and inside your beliefs too. These distractions resist you to do big in life. So before they resist you, you have all to do is to resist these distractions first. Whatever you do you have to focus on the things with clarity of mind and heart without any ruin of doubts or uncertain beliefs. With clearly focused you nourish a plant of your success without any doubt and get the ripen fruit of your efforts. And all this can happen when you eliminate point of distractions.

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5 Best Things to do to make your Mind, Body and Spirit Healthy and Strong

15 Best Things to do to make your Mind, Body and Spirit Healthy and Strong

 A healthy and strong mind, body and spirit make you to live fully and leads towards a better life.

A healthy and strong body keep you away from various diseases and may bless you to live longer.

A healthy and strong mind keep you emotionally strong and bless with healthy brain

A healthy and strong Spirit keep you peacefully. You live more deeper and positive life.

Here are 5 best things to make your mind, body and spirit healthy and strong.

1. Deep breathing

Muscles and brain get more oxygen as circulation increases as a result of deep breathing. It lessens the stress in your body and make your muscles, organs and tissues strong and boosts your energy level.

2. Good Nutrition

Eating variety of foods, such as vegetables, fruits and eating regular meals with  low amount of fat, salt and sugar makes a good nutrition. Eating healthy is important for healthy lifestyle. Your body become powerful and efficient machine when you fuel it with good and healthy nutritious food.

3. Drink Plenty of Water

The human body composed of 50-75% of water. Your brain, heart, lungs, muscles and kidneys contain more than 70% of water. So drinking 8-12 glasses of water daily keep you hydrated. When you stay hydrated your performance level increases. It maintains your body temperature, lubricates your joints and remove waste from body.

 4. Good Quality Sleep

Sleep is a periodic state of mind and body. 7-9  hours sleep is considered good for healthy mind and body. Better sleep supports your brain to function healthy and efficiently as well as make you physically healthy. It protect you from various diseases and lowers your stress.

5. Regular Exercise 

Exercise improves health and fitness and overall well being. Exercise makes your muscles strong and boosts your energy. It helps in delivering efficiently nutrients and oxygen to tissues of your body. It helps in loosing weight as well as reducing the risk level of various diseases.

 

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Always Use a SMART Guideline For Setting Your Goals

Always Use a SMART Guideline For Setting Your Goals

By reading a “Smart” what you are thinking of a smart as cool, sharp, bold, intelligent or elegant?

Yes here it can be a cool, sharp, organized, bold, wise, elegant approach towards setting your goals.

But it can be more than this.

What is meant by Smart Guideline?

SMART is an acronym which you can use as a guide for setting your goals. It comprehensively define goal setting with different variations.

S– Specific, substantial, broaden

M– Measurable, meaningful, motivational

A– Attainable, action-oriented, acceptable

R– Realistic, reasonable, result-oriented, relevant

T– Time-Bound, tangible, track able

History:

This term is accredited to Peter Duker’s concept of Management by Objectives. And this term is first used by George T. Doran in November 1981 issue of Management Review. (Source: Mindtool)

Why to use:

SMART guideline helps you to clearly focus, attentive and to concentrate on your goals. As well as maximize your chances to achieve your goals. It gives you a direction to achieve your goal fast.

First step:

Write your goals.Don’t keep every goal inside your head, just start writing your goals in this way you have a clear view of your goals. And this clear picture then make you to get more fruitful use of SMART tool and strengthen your belief that what you want is possible to achieve and you can go for it.

How to use SMART guideline:

You can get now clear picture step by step to use this guideline in a following way:

> S :

-You have to be specific while setting goals to make your goals specific.

-Well-defined goals. Define everything what you want clearly.

– Write every possible answer of your questions.This involves what,why, when, which, where,who,  and how.

  • What: you want to achieve.
  • Why: you want to achieve, possible reasons, outcomes, rewards, benefits.
  • When: setting of deadlines, when you will get what you want,when you have to start working on your goals, when you have to perform specific tasks.
  • Which: requirements, resources involve, obstacles, needs, techniques, tools and tricks.
  • Who: can take part in your goals,  your role as well as role of others in getting set targets.
  • Where: you meet your goal, where you can perform your tasks, everything about location matters
  • How: you can get a certain target, a way of achieving goal.

-For example: 

  • You set a goal that you want to start a business. It can’t be your specific goal. It become specific when you say i want to start a business of selling bakery items. It can become more specific when you say that you want to sell cakes, pastries etc any specific items.It makes your goal of starting a business very specific because now you have knowledge about getting your goal with specific information.
  • Similarly if you have a goal to write a book or to lose a weight. Write clearly what about you want to write and for whom. How many pounds you want to lose in 30 days?.

> M :

– Your goal should be measurable, have some meaning and motivation which forces you towards your goal.

-You deal here with numbers, dates, and all possible and estimated figures.

-Makes your goal tangible and quantifiable.

-Like how much, how many, how far, how does it take is answer here.

-Assigning of each measurable units to your tasks.

-For Example:

( Related to above example).

  • When you have set specific goal of  starting your business now you have to deal with numbers. You set your time, cost, price, profit everything with can be defined quantity wise. Like you have to make x number of bakery items per day, y number of ingredients required, xy number of price to sell, zx number of profit etc. Thus you have to mention all tangible details for attaining your goal.
  • For book: how many number of pages or chapters you write per day, per week, per month.How much words etc.

> A :

– Your goals should be attainable, acceptable, and action oriented.

-Which sets you for some action.

-Clear and acceptable outcome.

Achievable goal with your available resources

-For example:

  • Set to a business now what step, all required inventory for bakery you have to take using your available resources(budget, skills), but  more is that are you a good at baking? Is this business is for you? Are your recipes are like-able? Where you have to set a standard of building customer relationship?Where you are selling?  i.e. if near community what you know about their choice of taste? How you promote it? What you have to offer? Your point of attraction?
  • For Book: what you know about what you are writing. Your targeted audience. Who can get benefit from it. How you publish? Will you go for self publishing or find publisher somewhere.

> R :

– You  should have relevant, logical and realistic approach towards your goal.

– Some reasonable result oriented  actions for settled goals.

– You are down to earth in your effort for what you  want to achieve.

-Don’t make to much expectations with your goals. Be realistic and work hard.

– What conditions and environment is suitable for it.

– Availability of all resources, time and information which you need for accomplishing your goals.

-For Example:

  • Be realistic in which you are going to work. It is bakery in our above example. Is it your hobby to bake? You like to stand in kitchen and do your work for a x time period?  Why you are going for this business? Mention realistic reasons with using all your possible available resources  in your present condition or circumstances.  What you are expecting from your this bakery business, all should be real with realistic outcomes in real time.
  • For Book: are you flooded with all required information for publishing your book? Make you expert, learner, warrior. Have you possess a convinceable and clear conveying message pattern for your writing to your audience to whom you are writing for?

> T :

-Time-bound, track able and tangible goals.

-Enough time is requires or less.

-Which tasks can be done in x time?

-Categorize your goals as Long term, short-term and life time goals.

-Setting of deadline for each and every task require for attaining your goal.

-For example:

  • In 2 weeks or  in a month you set all for your bakery. And in x time you prepare y amount of bakery items. z time is require for promoting your business and achieving realistic outcomes, profit etc.
  • Similar is for your book. In ___ weeks or months you done all for your book. It may be drafts, final manuscripts, publishing time, promoting book, sales etc.

Once you write all your goals and use SMART technique then you are very near to achieve your goals with possible best outcome.

 

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Good Bye 2018… Welcome 2019 !

 

 

Say Good bye 2018.

And Welcome 2019 with best wishes.

New year, New goals, new dreams, hopes, plans…

May all come true of all of us. Ameen

 

 

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Believe You can do everything and anything

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Yes you can do every thing.

Why?

Power of doing lies inside you. If you know your self, if you know your potentials.Then you are able to do everything and anything.

Nothing in this world is possible.We often hear that impossible says itself that i m possible.Once you decided to to something then stick with your decision and give your full effort to do that.

Believe that you will get what you want to get.Believe that you  can conquer big castles of the world.Believe that you can win every battle. You should need to believe on your self and your abilities.This believe and positive mental attitude make you achieve everything and make it possible for you to do anything and everything.

You just need to explore your talents. You just need  a courage to overcome all negativeness and hurdles that come in your way and tries to make you weak. You have to fight with your weaknesses.

Don’t believe that you can’t do this and that.You just need to believe that you can do everything.Realize yourself that i can do everything.

You are the one who create his destiny himself by your  decisions and actions.

Overcome your weaknesses, strengthen your believe, and take a stand to do anything.

Do you believe that you can do everything and anything?

 

17 sayings that help you in overcoming your fears

  1. “Do one thing every day that scares you.”― Eleanor Roosevelt
  2. “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”― Frank Herbert
  3. “Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.”― C. JoyBell C.
  4. “Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.”― Salvador Dalí
  5. “Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”― Jim Morrison
  6. “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.”― Paulo Coelho
  7. “Men go to far greater lengths to avoid what they fear than to obtain what they desire.”― Dan Brown
  8. “I have accepted fear as part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back….”― Erica Jong
  9. “Do not be afraid; our fate Cannot be taken from us; it is a gift.”― Dante Alighieri
  10. “I must say a word about fear. It is life’s only true opponent. Only fear can defeat life. It is a clever, treacherous adversary, how well I know. It has no decency, respects no law or convention, shows no mercy. It goes for your weakest spot, which it finds with unnerving ease. It begins in your mind, always … so you must fight hard to express it. You must fight hard to shine the light of words upon it. Because if you don’t, if your fear becomes a wordless darkness that you avoid, perhaps even manage to forget, you open yourself to further attacks of fear because you never truly fought the opponent who defeated you.”― Yann Martel
  11. “Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.”― Marie Curie
  12. “The moment we begin to fear the opinions of others and hesitate to tell the truth that is in us, and from motives of policy are silent when we should speak, the divine floods of light and life no longer flow into our souls.”― Elizabeth Cady Stanton
  13. “Without fear there cannot be courage.”― Christopher Paolini
  14. “Find out what you’re afraid of and go live there.”― Chuck Palahniuk
  15. “Always do what you’re afraid to do.”― E. Lockhart,
  16. “Here is the world. Beautiful and terrible things will happen. Don’t be afraid.”― Frederick Buechner
  17. “Fear’s useless. Either something bad happens or it doesn’t: If it doesn’t, you’ve wasted time being afraid, and if it does, you’ve wasted time that you could have spent sharpening your weapons.”

    ― Sarah Rees Brennan

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10 Best Habits

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A habit means to repeat same actions in same conditions.

Everyone have some good and few bad habits.

We can replace bad habits with the good ones.

Some habits are naturally in us while few habits we adopt from family, friends and from environment. And these habits have deepest impact on our life circumstances.

These habits represent our self to others. It depends on us that how we show our self to others.

Instinct and inborn habits are the ones which are natural and need based, for example eating, and drinking, sleeping etc. But what we are eating and drinking or when we are sleeping indicates our habits.

Here are the 10 best habits:

  1. Early to bed & early to rise
  2. Eating healthy diet
  3. Exercise
  4. Reading books
  5. Punctuality
  6. Admitting mistakes and forgiving others
  7. Proper planning and organizing
  8. Always be grateful
  9. Admiring nature
  10. Always thinking positively

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10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

Human brain is a treasure of ideas.In every moment new idea gives birth in our brain.But all of those ideas are not able to determine our success or to take an action on them. A lot of considerable ideas blossoms in our mind garden  but fades at the same time.

Everyone is in search of great ideas that can change their lives.So it is important to get reach at the level where your brain gives standard  ideas and then it depends on you that how you nurture and take action on those ideas.

There are 10 ways in which you can get more productive and beneficial ideas from your brain.

1. Clarity

First be clear about your problem and your ambitions.Remember that you cannot get the best possible solution to your problem without identifying the problem first.Without clarity you are like standing on the platform without knowing clear about the starting and point of your destination.If you are clear about your goals and your problems then you can easily reach at your destination of getting ideas that are relevant to your problems.

2. Practice

Practice the brain exercises which make you to get great ideas.Brainstorming is one of that practice which can give you influencing ideas.By brainstorming you can reach at the best possible solution to your problems.You can brainstorm by writing or by discussing the issue with others.

3. Concentrate

Pay concentration on your needs and demands.What you want should be clear first, in this way you can focus only on one thing properly and also you can work attentively on that. Similarly if you want to be a best writer then you should need to pay your full attention and concentration on writing.You will concentrate on the ideas more that will help you in writing.

4. Interest

Developing interest in whatever you are doing gives fruitful results.You should need to have interest in the way in the steps that help you in getting your goals.But if your work matches your interest it ensures your success. Because if you interested in getting something or reaching somewhere, you will work hard to achieve it.Your interest level also gives you relevant ideas.

5. Compare

Sometimes same solution to the same problems doesn’t works.But you can compare the past and present situation to get idea from your past experiences and to apply it in present situation in a different way, that works.

6. Accept

Accept every task as a challenge and then give your best effort to win that challenge. Don’t think your task as a problem but as a challenge.  In this way toughest of toughest task become easier to complete.

7. Explain

Explain your problems or challenges. If you are clear about them you can then easily explain and evaluate them. Explaining and evaluating surrounding solution to the problems is vital to  get out of the every situation.Explain yourself what you want to explore more ideas according to it.

8. Conscious

Sometimes we spend days and nights in thinking about getting out of the situation but  get nothing.But suddenly idea strikes in our mind and we become able to take an action on that.By keeping eyes on your goals every time and giving yourself positive affirmations makes you to get whatever you want.

9. Live

Try to live differently as compared to ordinary days.You will get the new experiences by doing so.It will broadens your vision and open the new avenues to get out more from your brain.

10. Work

Whenever any idea hit the ground of your mind, write it at the same time.For this keep pen and paper with you or write it in any digital format. When you write it then find the best way to implement that idea in a best manner to get maximum output.Finally start doing work on your idea, with your full potential  and effort. Rest will become the history.

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LIFE in 101 lines of Truth

LIFE in 101 lines of Truth

  1. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it.– Dennis P. Kimbro.
  2. Life doesn’t require that we be the best, only that we try our best. –H. Jackson Brown Jr.
  3. Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. ­­­_ Carol Burnett.

  4. I have found that if you love life, life will love you back.  _ Arthur Rubinstein
  5. You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.― Mae West
  6. Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans. ― Allen Saunders
  7. Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.― George Bernard Shaw

  8. Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.― Albert Einstein
  9. Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn’t stop for anybody. ― Stephen Chbosky,
  10. You cannot find peace by avoiding life. ― Michael Cunningham
  11. Where there is love there is life. ― Mahatma Gandhi
  12. Life is a book and there are a thousand pages I have not yet read.― Cassandra Clare
  13. Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. ― Søren Kierkegaard
  14. Life’s under no obligation to give us what we expect.― Margaret Mitchell
  15. Life is to be enjoyed, not endured ― Gordon B. Hinckley
  16. This is your life and its ending one moment at a time.― Chuck Palahniuk
  17. Life’s just a bunch of accidents, connected by one perfect end.― Daniel C. Tomas

  18. An apology is the superglue of life! It can repair just about anything!! ― Lynn Johnston
  19. That means life itself is a fairy tale. Like the characters, we all live and love and search for a happily-ever-after. ― Gena Showalter
  20. Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well.― Robert Louis Stevenson
  21. The trouble is if you don’t spend your life yourself, other people spend it for you.― Peter Shaffer
  22. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.― Helen Keller,
  23. It’s funny how you can live somewhere your whole life, but not really see it.― Kami Garcia
  24. It is not the length of life, but the depth.― Ralph Waldo Emerson

  25. Ordinary life is pretty complex stuff. ― Harvey Pekar
  26. Life is to be lived, not controlled; and humanity is won by continuing to play in face of certain defeat.― Ralph Ellison,
  27. Life becomes easier and more beautiful when we can see the good in other people.
    ― Roy T. Bennett
  28. And life is what we make it. Always has been, always will be.― Grandma Moses

  29. The secret of life is honesty and fair dealing. If you can fake that, you’ve got it made.― Groucho Marx
  30. Life moves very fast. It rushes from Heaven to Hell in a matter of seconds.― Paulo Coelho
  31. In life, more than in anything else, it isn’t easy to end up alive.― Roman Payne
  32. Life has become the future. Every moment of your life is lived for the future.― John Green
  33. Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it. ― Haruki Murakami,
  34. Unexpected intrusions of beauty. This is what life is.― Saul Bellow
  35. Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome.― Isaac Asimov
  36. That is life… to begin again when everything is lost!― J. Cronin
  37. The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams.― Oprah Winfrey
  38. Life is about accepting the challenges along the way, choosing to keep moving forward, and savoring the journey.― Roy T. Bennett
  39. Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another.― Ernest Hemingway
  40. Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced. – Soren Kierkegaard

  41. There are no classes in life for beginners: right away you are always asked to deal with what is most difficult.― Rainer Maria Rilke
  42. Life is dear to every living thing; the worm that crawls upon the ground will struggle for it.― Solomon Northup
  43. Life’s as kind as you let it be. ― Charles Bukowski,
  44. Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.― Helen Keller
  45. There is a very fine line between loving life and being greedy for it.― Maya Angelou
  46. Life is a comedy to those who think, a tragedy to those who feel.― Jean Racine
  47. There are always loose ends in real life.― Robert Galbraith
  48. Life is a dream from which we all must wake before we can dream again.― Robert Jordan
  49. Human life is but a series of footnotes to a vast obscure unfinished masterpiece.― Vladimir Nabokov
  50. Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…It’s about learning to dance in the rain.― Vivian Greene

  51. Our life is what our thoughts make it.― Marcus Aurelius
  52. This isn’t life in the fast lane, it’s life in the oncoming traffic.― Terry Pratchett
  53. Art and life are subjective. Not everybody’s gonna dig what I dig, but I reserve the right to dig it.― Whoopi Goldberg
  54. Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is a jar.― Jim Butcher
  55. Life is not fair get used to used to it.― Bill Gates
  56. A life isn’t measured in hours and minutes. It’s the quality, not the length.― Gabrielle Zevin
  57. Life, unfortunately, doesn’t seem to care what we want.― Richelle Mead
  58. The great object of life is sensation- to feel that we exist, even though in pain.― George Gordon Byron
  59. Life is a tapestry woven by the decisions we make.― Sherrilyn Kenyon
  60. In life, there are no mistakes, only lessons.― Vic Johnson

  61. Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, what experience tells you to do, and what your nerves let you do.― Walter Bagehot
  62. Life isn’t worth living, unless it is lived for someone else.― Albert Einstein
  63. If you think something is missing in your life, it is probably YOU.― Robert Holden
  64. The aim of life is self-development. To realize one’s nature perfectly – that is what each of us is here for.― Oscar Wilde
  65. You can’t regret the life you didn’t lead.― Junot Díaz
  66. The only certainty life contains is death.― Patricia Briggs
  67. Losing your life is not the worst thing that can happen. The worst thing is to lose your reason for living.― Jo Nesbø

  68. Life would be unbearably dull if we had answers to all our questions.― Jim Butcher

  69. Real life is messy, inconsistent, and it’s seldom when anything ever really gets resolved. It’s taken me a long time to realize that.― Alan Moore
  70. Life, although it may only be an accumulation of anguish, is dear to me, and I will defend it.― Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley
  71. Life doesn’t require ideals. It requires standards of action.― Haruki Murakami,

  72. After all, what’s a life, anyway? We’re born, we live a little while, we die.― B. White
  73. Everything changes in my life, and the world stays the same.― Cassandra Clare
  74. Life is ours to be spent, not to be saved.― H. Lawrence
  75. Life is like a play: it’s not the length, but the excellence of the acting that matters. ― Seneca
  76. Life is a blank canvas, and you need to throw all the paint on it you can.― Danny Kaye
  77. Life is not like water. Things in life don’t necessarily flow over the shortest possible route.― Haruki Murakami
  78. Life is problems. Living is solving problems.― Raymond E. Feist

  79. The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.― Albert Einstein
  80. Life is not complex. We are complex. Life is simple, and the simple thing is the right thing.― Oscar Wilde

  81. Life is 10 percent what you make it and 90 percent how you take it.― Irving Berlin

  82. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.― Parker J. Palmer
  83. You know, life fractures us all into little pieces. It harms us, but it’s how we glue those fractures back together that make us stronger.― Carrie Jones
  84. Life is so constructed, that the event does not, cannot, will not, match the expectation.― Charlotte Brontë
  85. While there’s life, there’s hope.― Marcus Tullius Cicero
  86. Life is like an onion; you peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.― Carl Sandburg
  87. Anything can happen in life, especially nothing.― Michel Houellebecq
  88. The irony of life is that those who wear masks often tell us more truths than those with open faces. ― Marie Lu
  89. I believe when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade…and try to find someone whose life has given them vodka, and have a party.― Ron White
  90. Life—the way it really is—is a battle not between good and bad, but between bad and worse.― Joseph Brodsky
  91. Life’ wrote a friend of mine, ‘is a public performance on the violin, in which you must learn the instrument as you go along.― M. Forster
  92. The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye, the story of love is hello and goodbye…until we meet again.― Jimi Hendrix
  93. If you have a strong purpose in life, you don’t have to be pushed. Your passion will drive you there.― Roy T. Bennett
  94. All people know the same truth. Our lives consist of how we choose to distort it.― Woody Allen
  95. Life isn’t fair, it’s just fairer than death, that’s all.― William Goldman
  96. Life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed. Explore more, expect least.― Santosh Kalwar
  97. Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage. ― Anaïs Nin
  98. The power to change your life lies in the simplest of steps.― Steve Maraboli
  99. In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on. ― Robert Frost

  100. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.-Ralph Waldo Emerson
  101. The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it’s all that matters. ― Audrey Hepburn

3 ways to strengthen your motivation

3 ways to strengthen your motivation

Desires and ambitions fuel the motivation.If you lack both you lack motivation too.Your inner self drives you and motivates you to fulfill your desires and achieve your goals, if you have them.You will be persistent, energize and courageous, when you are motivated.

1. Visualization

Having a  clear vision and image of your goals in your mind, make you motivated to work on them.It will pushes your inner power and strength to move towards the direction which can turn your vision into a reality.Visualization strengthens your motivation and enhance your abilities to achieve whatever you want. Having a goal itself motivates you.

Visualization makes your subconscious mind to work with you.So visualize your desires as you have already achieved them, it will strengthen your motivation and add the feeling of happiness and joy.

2. Affirmation

Thinking positively help you to be stay motivated to get success, wherever you want it. Sticking  with a goal and never giving up in any hardship, burns the flame of motivation. Staying positive and  patience gives you positive results and motivates you to do whatever you want.

Avoiding negative statements and repeating positive statements, motivates you that you can do everything and achieve whatever you want.Having a firm believe on whatever you are saying to yourself brings positive results. Say yourself that you can do everything.

3. Inspiration

Getting inspiration from your surroundings, from reading, socializing make you to stay motivated.See for inspiration from your right and left.Read books that strengthens your motivations and develops your urge to achieve the goals faster.

Whenever you think you are procrastinated, try to connect with the people who inspires you, and motivates you.It will help you in overcoming procrastination.

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Early to bed & Early to rise

Early to bed & Early to rise

Starting a day early:

We heard many times a beautiful phrase said by Benjamin Franklin;

Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.

Healthy in a way: Perform exercise, eating healthy breakfast, feels psychologically and physiologically better.

Wealthy in a way:  You done more productive work with excellence and proficiency, complete the tasks on time.

Wise in a way: You can take best decisions.

To start early a day is one of the habits of successful people. Getting up early make you a time to go for walk or exercise, to get a breakfast, to complete your tasks, do the homework done, to read newspaper, time for family etc. Then it left for you a plenty of time to complete pending tasks, to go the office or college.

Morning is a peaceful time where you get silent moments without any distractions. And what you can do in silent moments? You can take more work from your brain because you are more energizing in morning and willpower is also at peak in morning.

Thus rising early affects you positively both psychologically and physiologically. It is the best time for creative work and taking decisions too because your mind works sharp in morning.

Tip: If you are not a morning person try to adopt morning habit slowly. And remind yourself that you are more productive in morning, if you wake up early you can complete your many tasks in a start of the day.

What makes me to feel better in morning is to see dew drops or walk on the grass having dew drops, giving me soothing and pleasant effect and to see greenery in morning gives cooling effect to eyes.

Early to bed:

Many of us go to bed early but do not get a good sleep soon because we are thinking about our day activities or any other type of thoughts comes in our mind, which stop us to get good sleep.

Tips to go early to bed so that you can get 7-8 hours of good sleep and then wake up early in morning.

  • Before you go to the bed on night, make a list of performing tasks of tomorrow or check the list if you have already made it on weekly or monthly task basis, add anything in it or remove.
  • Plan your morning on night. What you will do in morning extra hour? Which clothes do you wear tomorrow? Where you will go? Have a morning meeting? Are you prepared for meeting? Ask questions to yourself.
  • Before sleep do not use alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes.
  • With your close eyes imagine one thing which makes your day good.
  • Think positively.  Think about the pleasant moments of the day. Avoid negative thoughts.
  • Try to say thanks for a day.
  • Forgive others before sleeping and left with you no regrets.

Motivate yourself in morning for the day and motivates yourself  on night for the next day: 

How Steve jobs’ motivate himself in morning, in his words;

For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?”

And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

Q: Are you early riser and early to go to the bed? What changes you see in your life by adopting this routine?

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77 highly effective negative traits to get rid off

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Different words use for describing a trait such as characteristic, feature, unique and distinguishing quality of a person. Somewhere it is described as a unique feature which is blessed by genes. Thus trait gives an image of our personality. It can be a  negative or positive or neutral. And everyone possess it. It is a reflection of our personality that who we are.

Here are few important negative traits from which we have to get rid off in order to be a better person.

  1. Abrasive
  2. Aimless
  3. Argumentative
  4. Agonizing
  5. Amoral
  6. Asocial
  7. Bewildered
  8. Brittle
  9. Callous
  10. Careless
  11. Clumsy
  12. Colorless
  13. Complacent
  14. Childish
  15. Complaintive
  16. Compulsive
  17. Conceited
  18. Cowardly
  19. Crafty
  20. Crass
  21. Critical
  22. Deceitful
  23. Dirty
  24. Dishonest
  25. Disorganized
  26. Disrespectful
  27. Dissonant
  28. Escapist
  29. Envious
  30. Faithless
  31. Extreme
  32. Fanciful
  33. Fawning
  34. Graceless
  35. Greedy
  36. Gullible
  37. Hesitant
  38. Imitative
  39. Impatient
  40. Imprudent
  41. Incurious
  42. Insulting
  43. Inert
  44. Irresponsible
  45. Irritating
  46. Lazy
  47. Mannerless
  48. Mealymouthed
  49. Meddlesome
  50. Negativistic
  51. Narcissistic
  52. One-dimensional
  53. Opportunistic
  54. Oppressed
  55. Over imaginative
  56. Paranoid
  57. Passive
  58. Possessive
  59. Regretful
  60. Ridiculous
  61. Sadistic
  62. Secretive
  63. Selfish
  64. Shortsighted
  65. Suspicious
  66. Thoughtless
  67. Troublesome
  68. Unconvincing
  69. Uncooperative
  70. Undisciplined
  71. Un-creative
  72. Unstable
  73. Unprincipled
  74. Unpolished
  75. Vulnerable
  76. Vindictive
  77. Weak willed

 

 

Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Is your Aim matches your Wants?

Aiming big, high, more, less, little doesnot matter until you don’t know what you want to do with yourself?with your life?

It is like a journey on a road without knowing where your destiny lies?

We often listen that aiming big, achieving high.  Suppose you aimed high and achieved big. Is it all that you really want to get from your life? Is it satisfying for you? Or there is a hole inside you remaining unfulfilled despite of achieving your aim?

If yes. Then it happens because you are aiming and achieving what you don’t want from your heart to get.

Reality  is that what we want is what we aim. But not always.

Suppose you aim to achieve certain X degree in order to get X job. So you got a degree and after that you got a job too matching your degree. But  after a certain time you realize that you are not happy with your job, with your lifestyle. It is because you had previously an aim that doesnot matches what you really want.

Mainly because for setting an aim of your life you haven’t listened voice of your heart. You haven’t discover what you really want to get from your life. You are unhappy because whatever you have achieved is not what you want.

So before aiming and achieving high, you should have all to do is to be to get awareness about your wants,  discover them, learn about them, realize them and then finally take an action to move forward in land of aiming big and achieving high. Every step of which  you enjoy and whose results gives you more pleasure and satisfaction.

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17 Ways to Do what you love to do

17 Ways to Do what you love to do

Do what you love or love what you are doing is important for achieving success and satisfaction.

If you are a doctor or teacher  and you love your professional work to teach or to deal with patients, then you are at high rate of satisfaction and more productive towards your work.And on the other side if you are in a profession that don’t satisfies you  and not make you to enjoy your work, then you are living a boring and dull life.

People who are professionalists, but not happy with their work and every time complaining  and blaming about their profession, can not live happy. If you are lying under same category of people then you can follow some tips to do what you love to do

  1. You can become more active and productive if you do what you are passionate about doing.
  2. In order to know your passion & interests, take a round trip of your skills and capabilities by judging yourself.
  3. Remind yourself the activities of your childhood, which fascinates you and that you liked a lot to do and got good results. In this way you can know about your interests well.
  4. Make a list of all of your interests and hobbies and categorize them according to your potential.
  5. Brainstorm the ideas and ways  and make a plan what, how, and when you do.
  6. Try to be realistic in doing what you want to do.
  7. Get more knowledge, information or resources about your interest. Meet people who have similar interests like you.
  8. Overcome your all type of  fears.  Stop believing that adopting your interest or hobby  as a profession is risky and not a good deal. With this state of believe and fear you never be able to get state of happiness and success.
  9. Explore the opportunities for your interest and then finally go for it.For example if you love to travel around a world then you should need to explore opportunities for it and ways for travelling profitably i.e. enjoy travelling+earning money through it.
  10. Decide what are those things that you are most capable to do.
  11. Know your potential skills and find the ways through which you can polish them more.
  12. Set up your mind for loss and gain, both. And pre-evaluate solutions for the loss and the problems that you might face.
  13. Try to add sense of creativity, what you are being doing.
  14. Share with your friends, family or well wishers about your passions and get feedback, ideas  and advice from them. These people can guide and help you in doing what you love to do.
  15. Find a mentor and get some inspiration and motivation from them.
  16. Don’t wait for a specific moment. Make a  firm decision and act accordingly.
  17. Plant grows slowly, so try to be patient.

When you do what you love to d, then you feel yourself more energized because your potential to give productive output increases. So its better to spend your energy on tasks which you are passionate about to accomplish.

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