12 things to do when you encounter criticism

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Criticism is one of the things that are faced by everyone in different forms. There are always a cluster of people who don’t appreciate your work but get jealous of whatever you do. These people deny your work and try to lower your energy by giving negative comments.

But there are also those people available to you who criticize you for your betterment and improvement. They encourage you by positive criticism to work more in a better way. Because their criticism make us to realize our mistakes. We are not subject master in everything or perfect in specific thing. Their criticism realize us this thing that we are not perfect and can make errors.

Here are 12 things to do when you encounter criticism;

  1. Try to bear critics.
  2. Accept all critics, whether it is negative or positive.
  3. Think about all points.
  4. Understand the point of criticism.
  5. Admit honestly that what you are lacking and where you need a room for improvement.
  6. Avoid making critics as your personal issue. Don’t take criticism to your heart.
  7. Judge yourself in pool of critics.
  8. Realize yourself that you are doing something that is affecting someone to react.
  9. Follow valuable critic, don’t ignore it.
  10. Remember that you are surrounded by both enemies and friends, who are always there to criticize you.
  11. Say thank you to all those who criticize you.
  12. Move ahead and try to fix it.Don’t stop yourself after criticism.

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5 Important Things To Be Successful

5 Important Things To Be Successful

To get a success and to maintain it on a same level is not an easy task. It requires a strong devotion, plenty of hard work, valuable goals and crystal clear doubtless concepts and motives.

In order to get a success and to learn from a successful people you have to remove your doubts, and misunderstandings nourishing in your mind about success.  Being Successful is not about not doing any mistake, walking without any  thorns, owning a plenty of money, getting easily what you wish. But being successful is a measure of other things rather than these.

Here are 5 important things to be successful:

1. Learn from your mistakes

Can you tell about anyone who does not make any mistake ever? Off course No!  Because  no one in this world is free of  wrongs. You cannot make stop mistakes to happen. You have to come out from fear of  making mistakes. You just need to know a way to handle it and in which direction you take it. Whether you are learning from your mistakes? Or in guilt about what you have done?

To be successful it is not important that you done something wrong, but what really matter is that what will you do after making mistake? Are you learning from your mistakes and trying to avoid repeating same mistakes?.

2.  Do not hesitate in getting help

We are living in a society. Society is a name of mutual cooperation and connection. So how one can be a successful without anyone’s co operation?. Your success is a network, linkage and connection of others who also put effort in making you successful. They can be your parents, siblings, friends, relatives, teachers, co workers etc. Everyone have a some role in making you successful. You alone cannot get credit of your success.

For instance,  a huge famous restaurant owner  success is nothing without a co operation of chefs, waiters,food providers and other staff members plus his customers too are important to make him successful restaurant owner.

So whenever you need help take it from others in any way without hesitation because it is important to be successful. You alone cannot do everything by yourself.

3.  Utilize every second of available time

It is not necessary to work 16-18 hours daily in order to succeed. Some people are more successful by giving 4-6 hours performance. Because they are managing their time and utilizing every second of available time positively without wasting it in unfruitful activities. They are spending less time and putting their best effort in getting  quality work done honestly.

Manage your time in a best way and prioritize your tasks. Which task is more important do it first in a limited time. And enjoy rest of time or do any other activity in that time.

4. Quantity does not matters quality does

Is success a measure of quantity or quality? Is successful a man who owns a millions of dollars and other materialistic possessions?.

Answer is No! Because only wealth does not make you a successful. For a success you need other things too because it demands a lot to be successful. Many wealthy people are still unsuccessful. Study them, you will get a point.

Some people are successful in their field. Is wealth can get credit of him being successful? No! He is successful because he does not blindly run behind a wealth. He does not believe on overnight success. Whatever he do, he do it honestly, he enjoy it, he is loyal to his ambitions, he works hard, he utilizes his abilities and talents in a right way on a right time, he is organized, he manages his time fruitfully, most importantly he learns from his mistakes and avoid repetitions. He is doing something which make him enjoy his life and open the paths of success for others too.

All these things can give him success and wealth too, but not success for wealth or wealth for success. So whatever you do keep quality first and quantity least.

5. Difficulties comes in anyway

Hardships lies not only before and after success. They can come in anyway in anytime. Being successful does not mean that now you don’t face any difficulty. Getting success is not great but maintaining it and beating obstacles in its way is great.

Nothing is easy in our life and nothing is impossible too in this world, important thing is that how we are dealing with our life issues, how we are tackling with hardships, in which way we are removing thorns in our way of success.

So whatever success you have achieved maintain it, fight with the hurdles. Don’t be disappointed. Continue your efforts, enjoy your success and failures too. Accept the every phase of your life in which it appears, whether it is a difficult mode or easy one. And try to remove all misunderstandings about being successful in order to get actual success.

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5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

5 ways to make yourself DoubtLess

Doubt is your mental state which hangs you in between; what if/ whether. Sure/unsure. You are in belief/ disbelief, questioned state. You are in fear to choose. It is like a true and false. With your doubtful mind you cannot judge anything efficiently and effectively.  Doubt throws you in a basket of anxiety, make you embarrass and worthless and restricts your creativity, judging and decision power.

However being doubtless mean free of doubt. In state of certain surety. You have a believe that it can be true or is absolutely right. In certain case you are uncertain but very less that doesn’t matter a lot. To be doubtless is important in taking big steps. If you are free from any doubt then it means you are more confident about yourself.

Here are few ways to be doubtless.

1. Define your doubts to yourself;

When you are aware about your doubts. Then define them clearly to yourself with every minute detail. Make a sense what make you to be a doubtful in certain condition. For example you are into starting a business but you have so many doubts in starting, first you think you don’t have the guts to do this thing, you are uncertain about business idea, you are not hiring a certain person because you have a doubt on him too, etc. Now you have defined your doubts then work on them to get rid of them.

2. Believe on yourself;

For being doubtless, you should have to get a certain degree of believe on yourself. You know very well what can make you powerful (i.e. belief). When you are aware of yourself, you believe on yourself more. You know what make you strengthen and what make you weak. If you have too much doubt on yourself, you don’t bother to believe yourself; then no one can believe on you too. So believe first on yourself and then on whatever you do.

3. Take challenges and move ahead;

Everyday life itself is a challenging. But good thing is that how you make yourself compatible with these challenges without any doubt. You are in a state whether you can win or if you lose i.e. doubting yourself. So don’t concentrate on whether or if. Be a risk taker, take a challenge, tackle with a doubtful risk and move ahead.

4. Answer yourself;

Whatever you do in your life, wherever you are moving in your life you are answerable to yourself first. If you are moving on with some doubts then answer all the questions lying in your head first. Answer all the possibilities of that which questioned what if or whether. Now you have all the answers, choose from them which are doubtless and can make things possible for you.

5. Resist disruptions;

One of the reasons having so many doubts is distractions surrounding around you and inside you. These can be in form of anything or any person and inside your beliefs too. These distractions resist you to do big in life. So before they resist you, you have all to do is to resist these distractions first. Whatever you do you have to focus on the things with clarity of mind and heart without any ruin of doubts or uncertain beliefs. With clearly focused you nourish a plant of your success without any doubt and get the ripen fruit of your efforts. And all this can happen when you eliminate point of distractions.

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Your favorite subject that fascinates you

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Everyone has favorite topic to write about and to speak on that.Have you noticed that on which topic you can speak for hours, that will be your favorite topic. Because you like to speak on that or write on that.And your inner passion drives you to write on that specific topic.It shows your interest and your aptitude.

If you like to travel you love to read, write or speak on travel more.If you are interested in food you love to talk on food.There are many topics which fascinates us all to talk about them.It can be climate, theology, nature, health and fitness, self help, parenting,  etc.

Sometimes it happens that we like some topic a lot but lacks a knowledge about that.So its better to get a plenty of information on the topic in which you have interest.It is same like the thing that you get the degree in that subject that fascinates you or work in the field that you are interested in  and you feel joy while studying that or doing job in that field.

Share with us which topic  fascinates you to write,or to speak about ? 

 

17 sayings that help you in overcoming your fears

  1. “Do one thing every day that scares you.”― Eleanor Roosevelt
  2. “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.”― Frank Herbert
  3. “Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.”― C. JoyBell C.
  4. “Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.”― Salvador Dalí
  5. “Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”― Jim Morrison
  6. “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.”― Paulo Coelho
  7. “Men go to far greater lengths to avoid what they fear than to obtain what they desire.”― Dan Brown
  8. “I have accepted fear as part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back….”― Erica Jong
  9. “Do not be afraid; our fate Cannot be taken from us; it is a gift.”― Dante Alighieri
  10. “I must say a word about fear. It is life’s only true opponent. Only fear can defeat life. It is a clever, treacherous adversary, how well I know. It has no decency, respects no law or convention, shows no mercy. It goes for your weakest spot, which it finds with unnerving ease. It begins in your mind, always … so you must fight hard to express it. You must fight hard to shine the light of words upon it. Because if you don’t, if your fear becomes a wordless darkness that you avoid, perhaps even manage to forget, you open yourself to further attacks of fear because you never truly fought the opponent who defeated you.”― Yann Martel
  11. “Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.”― Marie Curie
  12. “The moment we begin to fear the opinions of others and hesitate to tell the truth that is in us, and from motives of policy are silent when we should speak, the divine floods of light and life no longer flow into our souls.”― Elizabeth Cady Stanton
  13. “Without fear there cannot be courage.”― Christopher Paolini
  14. “Find out what you’re afraid of and go live there.”― Chuck Palahniuk
  15. “Always do what you’re afraid to do.”― E. Lockhart,
  16. “Here is the world. Beautiful and terrible things will happen. Don’t be afraid.”― Frederick Buechner
  17. “Fear’s useless. Either something bad happens or it doesn’t: If it doesn’t, you’ve wasted time being afraid, and if it does, you’ve wasted time that you could have spent sharpening your weapons.”

    ― Sarah Rees Brennan

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9 tips to make your life different

9 tips to make your life different

1. Live without any regrets:

Your life can be different if you accept your life whatever it is and  whatever you are.This acceptance makes reduces your stress  and also opens your heart and mind to accept the life whatever it is without any regrets.You should need to accept the reality of  your life.Don’t live in any regressions,that hurts you and stops you to act in gaining what ever you want from your life.

2. Ask how instead of why:

Don’t think that why you are been put to this situation?Why you are been facing hardships?Why i am in this problem?Why this happen to me?

Just think that how you can get out of the hardships?How you can turn your lose in to profit?How you can overcome the evil forces in your life? Find the answers of how and then act accordingly.

3. Avoid negative assumptions:

Don’s assume negative things in your life, not for yourself and not even for others. Don’t judge  yourself as well as others on the basis of negative assumptions.Just look for good in yourself and ignore all the bad’s. And try to fix all the bad’s in your life first.

4. Encourage yourself and others:

Always give a dose of encouragement to yourself and to others who lose their hope.Be courageous to take bold steps in your life in order to reach at the peak of  success.If someone makes you let down, motivate yourself to move ahead and face the life.

5. Accept challenges of life:

Accept all the life challenges that it brings for you. Think that these challenges are like seasons and autumn will pass soon to bring spring of your life.So always open your heart to accept the challenges and put your effort hard to complete these challenges.

6. Stop worrying about the things that  your can not control:

Life brings many situations where those things happens that are not in our control and about that we have never thought.Don’t get worried in such type of situations. Just focus on the things that you can do and that are under your control.

7. Remember  honesty is the best policy:

Always be honest with yourself first.Then try to be honest with your family, friends and others.Do your work with honesty.Buildings whose foundations are made up of truth and honesty never fell down.

8. Avoid making your mind victim of negative forces:

Think positive about every thing even about those things that are negative, try to extract positive points from that.If you not do this your mind easily become victim of negative forces and your power to think positively fades down.

9. Find a meaningful purpose for your life:

Stop thinking on the things that you don’t want from your life.Just focus on the things that you want.Find  a clear purpose of your life, make a plan then act accordingly to get the purpose.Remember that the purpose should be meaningful that grows yourself in life and also help others.

In the end you will see there will be no regressions and no lame excuses remains in your life.

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10 Best Habits

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A habit means to repeat same actions in same conditions.

Everyone have some good and few bad habits.

We can replace bad habits with the good ones.

Some habits are naturally in us while few habits we adopt from family, friends and from environment. And these habits have deepest impact on our life circumstances.

These habits represent our self to others. It depends on us that how we show our self to others.

Instinct and inborn habits are the ones which are natural and need based, for example eating, and drinking, sleeping etc. But what we are eating and drinking or when we are sleeping indicates our habits.

Here are the 10 best habits:

  1. Early to bed & early to rise
  2. Eating healthy diet
  3. Exercise
  4. Reading books
  5. Punctuality
  6. Admitting mistakes and forgiving others
  7. Proper planning and organizing
  8. Always be grateful
  9. Admiring nature
  10. Always thinking positively

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10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

10 ways to get great ideas from your brain

Human brain is a treasure of ideas.In every moment new idea gives birth in our brain.But all of those ideas are not able to determine our success or to take an action on them. A lot of considerable ideas blossoms in our mind garden  but fades at the same time.

Everyone is in search of great ideas that can change their lives.So it is important to get reach at the level where your brain gives standard  ideas and then it depends on you that how you nurture and take action on those ideas.

There are 10 ways in which you can get more productive and beneficial ideas from your brain.

1. Clarity

First be clear about your problem and your ambitions.Remember that you cannot get the best possible solution to your problem without identifying the problem first.Without clarity you are like standing on the platform without knowing clear about the starting and point of your destination.If you are clear about your goals and your problems then you can easily reach at your destination of getting ideas that are relevant to your problems.

2. Practice

Practice the brain exercises which make you to get great ideas.Brainstorming is one of that practice which can give you influencing ideas.By brainstorming you can reach at the best possible solution to your problems.You can brainstorm by writing or by discussing the issue with others.

3. Concentrate

Pay concentration on your needs and demands.What you want should be clear first, in this way you can focus only on one thing properly and also you can work attentively on that. Similarly if you want to be a best writer then you should need to pay your full attention and concentration on writing.You will concentrate on the ideas more that will help you in writing.

4. Interest

Developing interest in whatever you are doing gives fruitful results.You should need to have interest in the way in the steps that help you in getting your goals.But if your work matches your interest it ensures your success. Because if you interested in getting something or reaching somewhere, you will work hard to achieve it.Your interest level also gives you relevant ideas.

5. Compare

Sometimes same solution to the same problems doesn’t works.But you can compare the past and present situation to get idea from your past experiences and to apply it in present situation in a different way, that works.

6. Accept

Accept every task as a challenge and then give your best effort to win that challenge. Don’t think your task as a problem but as a challenge.  In this way toughest of toughest task become easier to complete.

7. Explain

Explain your problems or challenges. If you are clear about them you can then easily explain and evaluate them. Explaining and evaluating surrounding solution to the problems is vital to  get out of the every situation.Explain yourself what you want to explore more ideas according to it.

8. Conscious

Sometimes we spend days and nights in thinking about getting out of the situation but  get nothing.But suddenly idea strikes in our mind and we become able to take an action on that.By keeping eyes on your goals every time and giving yourself positive affirmations makes you to get whatever you want.

9. Live

Try to live differently as compared to ordinary days.You will get the new experiences by doing so.It will broadens your vision and open the new avenues to get out more from your brain.

10. Work

Whenever any idea hit the ground of your mind, write it at the same time.For this keep pen and paper with you or write it in any digital format. When you write it then find the best way to implement that idea in a best manner to get maximum output.Finally start doing work on your idea, with your full potential  and effort. Rest will become the history.

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47 Positive Statements Repeat Yourself Everyday To Bring Positive Change in your life

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Affirmations are positive statements that you visualize and believe in and that helps you to overcome your negative thoughts.These statements boosts your energy to do every thing and make you more confident about yourself and your every action.

Repeating positive statements  everyday changes the way of your thinking and feeling.And you become able to defeat the negative beliefs about yourself.You start believing on yourself more and make smart choices that ensures your success.You become more capable to complete every task without worrying and hesitation.

Repeat these positive statements to yourself in every morning or on every night, when you need it.

  1. I myself a great blessing  in the world.
  2. I can do every thing.
  3. I have a courage to face every situation.
  4. I can take risks.
  5. I can turn my loss in to profit.
  6. I am born to win.
  7. I can turn my failure into victory.
  8. I trust on my abilities.
  9. I can make right and smart choices.
  10. I can change the world.
  11. I can get good grades in every exam of my life.
  12. I can prove myself.
  13. I am the CEO of my own life.
  14. I am more wealthy and healthy
  15. I am grateful for every thing.
  16. I am able  to change someone’s life.
  17. I can make more friends.
  18. I can control my anger.
  19. I can forgive others.
  20. I can admit my every mistake.
  21. I never give up.
  22. I find inner peace inside me.
  23. I think positively.
  24. I can overcome my negative thoughts.
  25. I can turn hatred into love.
  26. I can extract great pleasure from little things.
  27. I am happy with my life.
  28. I am confident about my every action.
  29. I can speak truth.
  30. I can speak in front of tons of people.
  31. I am unique with my  abilities.
  32. I can utilize my energy and time positively.
  33. I am comfortable with everyone.
  34. I follow my dreams.
  35. I accept myself whatever, who ever i am.
  36. I can bear criticism.
  37. I can achieve my every goal.
  38. I am excited about my every day.
  39. I am determined about my goals.
  40. I can give more.
  41. I enjoy my every moment.
  42. I can be a role model.
  43. I can break down every barrier and hurdle in my way.
  44. I am successful.
  45. I am the leader of my inner self.
  46. I never hate, i love everyone.
  47. Everything is possible for me.

 

What is in your list of affirmations?Or which positive statement you repeat yourself every day? Share with us.

7 Essential Steps for writing a book

7 Essential Steps for writing a book

1. What the book is about?

Do you know something very well about the topic you are been writing?. If yes then you know very well that what the book is about and who will get more from your book?.Making table of content first make easier for you to write on the topic.

2. Schedule for writing

Set a time for writing according to your ease. Or write when you are feeling yourself to giving more productive output.Usually this time can be a morning, when brain works more sharp and productive.

3. Writing Environment

Where you feel yourself more comfortable, start writing there.It can be your study room, living room, park,coffee house, etc.But avoid any distractions that disturb you while writing.That environment should be clean and have a proper light and a place where you can easily get fresh oxygen.

4. Decide chapters of  book

Before writing decide on rough estimate that how many chapters you have to write to give your message properly. Estimate that how many words you need to write for one chapter. for example; it can be 40,000-60,000 words, if you are writing standard nonfiction book or novella.

5. Get Motivation

In order to keep flowing ideas, read constantly. Read something that inspires you to write more. That motivate you to write your best and help you to overcome writer’s block.

6. Check for grammar and other common mistakes

After finishing writing book.Read all again and check for grammar mistakes and other things which you want to add or remove.

7. Share you writing for early feedback 

Before final publishing share your writing project with your friends, family or with other well-known authors. Who can give you early feedback on you book.Be sure to whom you are sharing your work can give you honest advice and feedback for your work.You can also start writing on a blog to get feedback.

47 quotes that inspire and motivate you to take an action

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There are millions of quotes we find everywhere quoted.But very few of them inspire us really and motivate us.Reading those quotes brings energy into us to act.

Here are 47 quotes that inspire and motivate you to take an action:

  1. You will get all that you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.  (Zig Ziglar)
  2. We do the best we can with what we have and when we know better, we do better. (Maya Angelou)
  3. Nothing ever gets easier. You just get stronger. (Unknown)
  4. You must be the change you wish to see in this world. (Gandhi)
  5. Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. (Pema Chödrön)
  6. You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. (Winston Churchill)
  7. It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness. (Chinese Proverb)
  8. It matters not what someone is born but what they grow to be. (J.K. Rowling)
  9. The lust for comfort kills the passions of the soul. (Khalil Gibran)
  10. It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are. (E.E. Cummings)
  11. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.Even the smallest person can change the course of the future. (J.R.R. Tolkien)
  12. We cannot start over but we can begin now and make a new ending. (Zig Ziglar)
  13. Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grow flowers, not thunder. (Rumi)
  14. The entrance door to the sanctuary is inside you. (Rumi)
  15. When you’re happy, don’t promise. When you’re angry, don’t answer. When you’re upset, don’t decide. (Persian proverb)
  16. I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it. ( Picasso)
  17. The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places. (Ernest Hemingway)
  18. If we leave our smells behind when we leave a room, surely something of our soul must remain when we leave this life. (George R.R. Martin)
  19. Keep your face always toward the sunshine, and shadows will fall behind you. (Walt Whitman)
  20. In every end, there is also a beginning. (Libba Bray)
  21. Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. (George Addair)
  22. If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. (Jim Rohn)
  23. When one door closes, another opens but there’s often a long hallway in between. (Ric Jarow)
  24. Talent is God-given, be humble. Fame is man-given, be grateful. Conceit is self-given, be careful. (Oprah)
  25. Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher. (Oprah)
  26. Better that the whole world should turn against you… than you should consent to turn against what is true within you. (Guy Finley)
  27. If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. (Peace Pilgrim)
  28. Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work. (Stephen King)
  29. Be strong when you are weak, brave when you are scared and humble when you are victorious. (Unknown)
  30. It always seems impossible until it’s done. (Nelson Mandela)
  31. You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens. (Louise L. Hay)
  32. If I want to be accepted as I am, then I need to be willing to accept others as they are. (Louise L. Hay)
  33. The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen at once. (Albert Einstein)
  34. People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals – that is, goals that do not inspire them. (Tony Robbins)
  35. Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. (Benjamin Franklin)
  36. It is never too late to be what you might have been. (George Eliot)
  37. Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you. (George R.R. Martin)
  38. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. (Theodore Roosevelt)
  39. Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it… it’s just easier if you do. (Byron Katie)
  40. Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find. (Wayne W. Dyer)
  41. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. (Helen Keller)
  42. Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got. (Robert Brault)
  43. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking that you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason to not follow your heart. (Steve Jobs)
  44. Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. (George Bernard Shaw)
  45. Everything you can imagine is real. (Pablo Picasso)
  46. How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. (Anne Frank)
  47. The two most important days of your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. (Mark Twain)

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Your Happiness lies within 3 words

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Happiness is our choice over sadness and miseries. When you are happy you feel yourself more alive and energized. Happiness is inside you, you just need to make it come out with full zest. But many of us don’t bother to see and find the happiness in ourselves. Instead of that we remain frustrated and blame the luck and others for being unhappy. We our self-become resistance in our way of happiness and make it more complicated to find. Often we kill our joy from our own hands because we choose misery, we choose to be sad. And we do not try to put our whole effort to overcome miseries with smile and become happier.

Here are 3 words with which your happiness starts; thoughts, beliefs and actions.

Happiness starts with your thoughts:

What are you thinking right now? Is there any negative thought in your mind right now? Is there any negative word in your mind that is making you unhappy? Are you in guilty mode? If yes to all this then what can you do?

You first need to get rid of these thoughts which make you unhappy, which throws you in bin of misery. Whenever negative thought comes overcome it with your positive thought. And think about your every problem with calm and consider it as a challenge not a problem. And you will notice yourself that how happy you are even in a problem and giving end to a problem with smile. And don’t make yourself mad about thinking unnecessary things. Be in reality and think real, rational and logical too.

Beliefs:

If you believe on yourself, then you are utilizing your energy positively not wasting it. Then it became easy to get success. With belief you can turn your dreams into reality. Belief that you can get whatever you want in your life. Believing on yourself bless you with happiness. This belief itself has a power to open the door of happiness.

Remove all the doubts which you are nurturing and replace them with a strong belief. And then you can conquer the every battle of the world. If you belief everything is possible, yes you can then turn the impossible into possible. It is your belief that gives you direction that makes you to follow your dreams that make you to walk on the right path and reach at your destination.

Remember your beliefs are the foundations of your success in every phase of life. If you believe on good then good definitely happens. You just need to belief on it.

Actions:

When you have thought to be happy and take a decision that how you can be happy, then take an action, which plays its role in creating happiness. Don’t feel guilty if your expectations doesn’t come true by taking particular type of an action then change the way to take an action i.e. change your planning, keeping goal alive.

From the past experiences and lessons learnt build the new foundations with firm believe on you. That this can time your action doesn’t make you fail and you get what you what. Try to enjoy the every process while moving towards your goal, whether it is failure or victory. Enjoy it in order to be happy with whatever you have in your life. Take very little steps and enjoy the journey.

Believe and think that it is easier to be happy and to enjoy your life.

What do you think, how your thoughts, beliefs and actions make you happy?

7 steps to complete big tasks

7 steps to complete big tasks

We get distracted and exhausted easily  while working on big tasks.If a project takes a lot of time to complete we get tired to work on that continuously.We become  energy less  while doing that and focus less on the work because it looks like a huge rock to hit that and seems more energy and time consuming.

It is always suggested that divide the big tasks into smaller ones to work on them easily and quickly.Breaking down tasks into parts can avoid distractions and your brain focus more on completing the task without getting exhausted and neglecting  other activities.

You can do it in these 7 steps:

  1. Think about the task and important parts of task.
  2. Divide the task into its component parts.
  3. Prioritize the component parts, which are most important one for the project.
  4. Evaluate effort require for completing each part of the task.
  5. Create a timeline to complete the each part.
  6. Start doing work on the component parts in order to complete the big project.
  7. Overview all of your work for the big project.

This Strategy is also applicable while working on your goals.

What is the strategy you adopt to complete your big tasks? Share with us.

The 3 types of terror defined by Stephen King

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Stephen King explain terror in three ways that are;

1. The Gross-out: the sight of a severed head tumbling down a flight of stairs, it’s when the lights go out and something green and slimy splatters against your arm.

2. The Horror: the unnatural, spiders the size of bears, the dead waking up and walking around, it’s when the lights go out and something with claws grabs you by the arm.

3. And the last and worse one: Terror, when you come home and notice everything you own had been taken away and replaced by an exact substitute. It’s when the lights go out and you feel something behind you, you hear it, you feel its breath against your ear, but when you turn around, there’s nothing there…
Which type of terror you have faced mostly? Share with us.

77 highly effective negative traits to get rid off

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Different words use for describing a trait such as characteristic, feature, unique and distinguishing quality of a person. Somewhere it is described as a unique feature which is blessed by genes. Thus trait gives an image of our personality. It can be a  negative or positive or neutral. And everyone possess it. It is a reflection of our personality that who we are.

Here are few important negative traits from which we have to get rid off in order to be a better person.

  1. Abrasive
  2. Aimless
  3. Argumentative
  4. Agonizing
  5. Amoral
  6. Asocial
  7. Bewildered
  8. Brittle
  9. Callous
  10. Careless
  11. Clumsy
  12. Colorless
  13. Complacent
  14. Childish
  15. Complaintive
  16. Compulsive
  17. Conceited
  18. Cowardly
  19. Crafty
  20. Crass
  21. Critical
  22. Deceitful
  23. Dirty
  24. Dishonest
  25. Disorganized
  26. Disrespectful
  27. Dissonant
  28. Escapist
  29. Envious
  30. Faithless
  31. Extreme
  32. Fanciful
  33. Fawning
  34. Graceless
  35. Greedy
  36. Gullible
  37. Hesitant
  38. Imitative
  39. Impatient
  40. Imprudent
  41. Incurious
  42. Insulting
  43. Inert
  44. Irresponsible
  45. Irritating
  46. Lazy
  47. Mannerless
  48. Mealymouthed
  49. Meddlesome
  50. Negativistic
  51. Narcissistic
  52. One-dimensional
  53. Opportunistic
  54. Oppressed
  55. Over imaginative
  56. Paranoid
  57. Passive
  58. Possessive
  59. Regretful
  60. Ridiculous
  61. Sadistic
  62. Secretive
  63. Selfish
  64. Shortsighted
  65. Suspicious
  66. Thoughtless
  67. Troublesome
  68. Unconvincing
  69. Uncooperative
  70. Undisciplined
  71. Un-creative
  72. Unstable
  73. Unprincipled
  74. Unpolished
  75. Vulnerable
  76. Vindictive
  77. Weak willed

 

 

Review your day

Review your day

Journaling or reviewing your all day activities of the day is a best idea.

Are you a person who reviews on night all day activities? If you are not then you should start to do this, because;

  1. This will tell you about all your mistakes which you have done on day but didn’t realize while doing them.
  2. You then know more about your expended time and energy.
  3. It will tell you that have you completed to-do-list tasks today.
  4. You will get acknowledge yourself about the bad’s and good ones of the day.
  5. You will realize in the end that how you have spent your day and how you can do more to spend your everyday fruitfully.
  6. You will know about the lessons learnt in the day.
  7. You will judge about your communication level that how you have interacted and communicated with others?
  8. You will learn about your life phase where improvement is needed, by recognizing your weak and lacking point of the day.
  9. You will realize your strengths, weaknesses, your struggles in the day and learn that how can you do the best? How can you overcome your weaknesses? Which phase  needs improvement?
  10. What is the new thing that you have learnt today? And how well you have learnt that one? And how you can do more of that?
  11. You can also overview or count the blessings of the day bestowed to you by Allah in a day.
  12. It will also help you in knowing your memorizing ability, in a way that what are the things of the day that you can recall.

Best way to review your day is to VISUALIZE YOUR ALL DAY ACTIVITIES IN 30 sec to 1 min from the point of awakening to the time when you are on bed for sleeping. Review all activities in order and do not jump from sequence. Doesn’t it look like a meditation or a movie running in front of your eyes?

What Benjamin Franklin asked himself every night is; what good have I done today?

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Thank you O Allah

Thank you O Allah

Thank you OH  Allah, Oh ALLAH The Great

You have created us

You have given us a reason to live

You blessed us with eyes to see, ears to hear, tongue to taste, brain to think, legs to walk, hands to work…

What you have not given us? Nothing is left to ask you to give us, You know our desires our needs, You have given us so much of things and we know the lacking point in our life is also fulfilling by You.

You are the best Oh ALLAH, You are The GREAT.

Thank You Allah for everything

I am nothing but You have given me everything.

I have no  Standard words that fulfill Your level of praise Oh ALLAH,

I am saying YOU thanks for everything, for every blessing in every moment, for my every breath. Thank you ALLAH. Thank you a lot ALLAH.

ALLAH you are The Most Merciful and The Most Gracious, Please forgive us for our every mistake.

Please help us OH ALLAH in our every aspect of life, Oh ALLAH please please fulfill our all legal desires and needs. Help us and make us successful in this world and in the world after that. Amen

Say Amen!